She's your friend? Stop trying to fuck her. Do you value the friendship, or just the (imagined) fucking? Seems pretty weak. And if you do fuck, what if you pop early. What if she's a dead fish in the sack.
If you find that you two get along real well and are great friends, maintain that and be glad for it because good friends are truly difficult to find and keep.
Likewise, you should stop imagining yourself with this one and find someone that will fuck you silly. It is ridiculously easy in this day and age to get laid. There are entire sites devoted to you getting laid with a girl who actually considers you her type (as opposed to your friend here, who apparently has a different type).
She's your friend? Stop trying to fuck her. Do you value the friendship, or just the (imagined) fucking? Seems pretty weak. And if you do fuck, what if you pop early. What if she's a dead fish in the sack.
If you find that you two get along real well and are great friends, maintain that and be glad for it because good friends are truly difficult to find and keep.
Likewise, you should stop imagining yourself with this one and find someone that will fuck you silly. It is ridiculously easy in this day and age to get laid. There are entire sites devoted to you getting laid with a girl who actually considers you her type (as opposed to your friend here, who apparently has a different type).
Good friendship > bad sex.
ditto ditto ditto. really well put,j.
and you never know what may eventually develop when you stop the passive scheming and just chill and enjoy their company.
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The best point was Hermes, a bit upthread:
Good men don't try to fuck their friends, dude.
She's your friend? Stop trying to fuck her. Do you value the friendship, or just the (imagined) fucking? Seems pretty weak. And if you do fuck, what if you pop early. What if she's a dead fish in the sack.
If you find that you two get along real well and are great friends, maintain that and be glad for it because good friends are truly difficult to find and keep.
Likewise, you should stop imagining yourself with this one and find someone that will fuck you silly. It is ridiculously easy in this day and age to get laid. There are entire sites devoted to you getting laid with a girl who actually considers you her type (as opposed to your friend here, who apparently has a different type).
Good friendship > bad sex.
ditto ditto ditto. really well put,j.
and you never know what may eventually develop when you stop the passive scheming and just chill and enjoy their company.
Hey Incompletejigsaw,
Contrary to some popular opinions, primarily, physical attraction is immediate and doesn't build over time. If the spark hasn't ignited for her, it won't. There will be others who have an instant attraction to you, so save your time and attention for them. Otherwise, relish the friendship you've cultivated because a good friend is hard to find. Enjoy being single and the opportunity it provides for dating multiple women to figure out what you qualities find attractive, and the type of woman with whom you're compatible. You have to sift through the "bad" to find the "good." These words come from, admittedly, long-time player who finally stumbled upon the right woman. We celebrate our 11th wedding anniversary in just over a week. Thus, anything is possible. Good luck!!!
i think the very fact that he's coming to Soul Strut for relationship advice already indicates this. (He needs more female friends too because they'd be giving him better advice as well).
Wow, "bunk buddies" was a minor gem. Please never, never use that term with a girl you are trying to sleep with.
Unless the situation is a total lock and you're trying to see how much ridiculous shit you can get pull and still get laid (happens sometimes).
Can I ask how old the original poster is? This seems like a brand of post-adolescent uncertainty that vaporizes for most people in their late 20s.
Trust me. I've never used the term "bunk buddies" with someone I'm interested in. Even I'm not that silly to try to see if stuff like that will work. But as for my age, I'm 22.
Can I just rewind this thread a bit and focus on this?
We've actually gone out to public places together, which was a huge bonus for me, because most females before that played the "stay at home" technique on me
I have no idea what this means but it piqued my curiosity.
Sayin'.
We now have image of jigsaw dude looking like The Elephant Man w/ brown paper bag
b/w
"I'm washing my hair tonight" moves revealed
It's just that her and I have actually spent more time doing things together and going out places together than previous females who I might've had an interest in. But as for my looks, I'd say that I'm quite alright. I'm not the most handsome, but I'm proud of who I am.
Man, there are so many lovely ladies in DC...my advice to you is meet some of them. Treat the friend like a friend and be done with it. Introduce her to your new girlfriend before she introduces you to her new boyfriend(which will happen if you linger around, trust me).
Man, there are so many lovely ladies in DC...my advice to you is meet some of them. Treat the friend like a friend and be done with it. Introduce her to your new girlfriend before she introduces you to her new boyfriend(which will happen if you linger around, trust me).
Oh, I'm already talking to other females. It's not like I've just exclusively talked to her and ignored other potential females out there. There are indeed some lovely ladies in DC, who then go back home after classes are over. But this summer I'm planning to hang out with some of my other ladyfriends from church, school, and the probable random run-in on the Metro. And that poster above speaks the truth. I think I should forward this entire thread to her and see what she has to say about all of this. Eyebrows will most definitely be raised.
A lot of the posts are directing you to act with her in mind - to make her jealous, to impress her, whathaveyou. Talking to other chicks, etc. won't mean shit if you're doing everything with her in mind, in hopes of getting some reaction from her, waiting to see what she will do. It will also not be fair to any one you may become involved with. You need to get your mind right. And to step away from this thread.
About showing her this thread - not sure how serious you are and you know her sense of humour and tolerance levels better than any of us, but tread lightly. It may backfire.
A lot of the posts are directing you to act with her in mind - to make her jealous, to impress her, whathaveyou. Talking to other chicks, etc. won't mean shit if you're doing everything with her in mind, in hopes of getting some reaction from her, waiting to see what she will do. It will also not be fair to any one you may become involved with. You need to get your mind right. And to step away from this thread.
About showing her this thread - not sure how serious you are and you know her sense of humour and tolerance levels better than any of us, but tread lightly. It may backfire.
Oh, she'd find this thread hilarious. As for her knowing it's about her, she might want to actually join SoulStrut just to chime in on the subject. But I never move fast. As for doing things just to get a reaction from her, that's not my modus operandi.
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Good men don't try to fuck their friends, dude.
She's your friend? Stop trying to fuck her. Do you value the friendship, or just the (imagined) fucking? Seems pretty weak. And if you do fuck, what if you pop early. What if she's a dead fish in the sack.
If you find that you two get along real well and are great friends, maintain that and be glad for it because good friends are truly difficult to find and keep.
Likewise, you should stop imagining yourself with this one and find someone that will fuck you silly. It is ridiculously easy in this day and age to get laid. There are entire sites devoted to you getting laid with a girl who actually considers you her type (as opposed to your friend here, who apparently has a different type).
Good friendship > bad sex.
ditto ditto ditto. really well put,j.
and you never know what may eventually develop when you stop the passive scheming and just chill and enjoy their company.
Hey Incompletejigsaw,
Contrary to some popular opinions, primarily, physical attraction is immediate and doesn't build over time. If the spark hasn't ignited for her, it won't. There will be others who have an instant attraction to you, so save your time and attention for them. Otherwise, relish the friendship you've cultivated because a good friend is hard to find. Enjoy being single and the opportunity it provides for dating multiple women to figure out what you qualities find attractive, and the type of woman with whom you're compatible. You have to sift through the "bad" to find the "good." These words come from, admittedly, long-time player who finally stumbled upon the right woman. We celebrate our 11th wedding anniversary in just over a week. Thus, anything is possible. Good luck!!!
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
i think the very fact that he's coming to Soul Strut for relationship advice already indicates this. (He needs more female friends too because they'd be giving him better advice as well).
Trust me. I've never used the term "bunk buddies" with someone I'm interested in. Even I'm not that silly to try to see if stuff like that will work. But as for my age, I'm 22.
Dude.
Spoken as someone who was in love with his best friend at 22...move on. You'll meet other people. Better put, you SHOULD be meeting other people.
It's just that her and I have actually spent more time doing things together and going out places together than previous females who I might've had an interest in. But as for my looks, I'd say that I'm quite alright. I'm not the most handsome, but I'm proud of who I am.
On short notice...
Make or break time.
brilliant...and pretty much sums it all up
Oh, I'm already talking to other females. It's not like I've just exclusively talked to her and ignored other potential females out there. There are indeed some lovely ladies in DC, who then go back home after classes are over. But this summer I'm planning to hang out with some of my other ladyfriends from church, school, and the probable random run-in on the Metro. And that poster above speaks the truth. I think I should forward this entire thread to her and see what she has to say about all of this. Eyebrows will most definitely be raised.
In fact, invite her to join.
You need to make this happen. My entertainment depends on it.
Talking to other chicks, etc. won't mean shit if you're doing everything with her in mind, in hopes of getting some reaction from her, waiting to see what she will do. It will also not be fair to any one you may become involved with.
You need to get your mind right.
And to step away from this thread.
About showing her this thread - not sure how serious you are and you know her sense of humour and tolerance levels better than any of us, but tread lightly. It may backfire.
poke her out yo
GAWWWW!
Line up in it.
Oh, she'd find this thread hilarious. As for her knowing it's about her, she might want to actually join SoulStrut just to chime in on the subject. But I never move fast. As for doing things just to get a reaction from her, that's not my modus operandi.
I remember those in elementary school. I hated reading that thing every Friday. I was more of a Newsweek kid.