Have you ever found yourself friendless?
ANon
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If so, how'd you change your situation?Real talk.
ANon
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nah but for real, sorry to hear that man. Ive never been friendless, but have gone thru phases where im not too social. I would rather sit home and listen to records or make beats some nights, then go out.
there's nothing wrong with being alone ,it give 's me more time to listen to my records, with records who's alone.
just talk to people ,
"jesus he's my friend" he's the only friend you need
If you got what it takes
'Cause I'm Kurtis Blow and I want you to know
That these are the-breaks.com
Breakes on a bus brakes on a car
Breaks to make you a superstar
Breaks to win and breaks to lose
But these here breaks will rock your shoes
And these are the-breaks.com
Break it up break it up break it up!
If your woman steps out with another man
(That's the-breaks.com that's the-breaks.com)
And she runs off with him to Japan
And the IRS says they want to chat
And you can't explain why you claimed your cat
And Ma Bell sends you a whopping bill
With eighteen phone calls to Brzil
And you borrowed money from the mob
And yesterday you lost your job
Well, these are the-breaks.com
Break it up, break it up, break it up
Throw your hands up in the sky
And wave 'em 'round from side to side
And if youdeserve a break tonight
Somebody say alright!
(All right) Say ho-oo!
(Ho-oo!) And you don't stop
Keep on, somebody scream!
(Owwwww!) Break down!
Breaks on a stage, breaks on a screen
Breaks to make your wallet lean
Breaks run cold and breaks run hot
Some folks got 'em and some have not
But these are the-breaks.com
Break it up, break it up, break it up!
Break down!
To the girl in brown, stop messing around
(Break it up, break it up)
To the guy in blue, whatcha gonna do?
To the girl in green, don't be so mean
And the guy in red, say what I said
Break down!
Brakes on a plane, brakes on a train
Breaks to make you go insane
Breaks in love, breaks in war
But we got the-breaks.com to get you on the floor
And these are the-breaks.com
Break it up, break it up, break it up!
Break down! Yo!
Just do it, just do it, just do it, do it, do it!
Just do it, just do it, just do it, do it, do it!
Just do it, just do it, just do it, do it, do it!
Just do it, just do it, just do it, do it, do it!
You say last week you met the perfect guy
(That's the-breaks.com, that's the-breaks.com)
And he promised you the stars in the sky
He said his Cadilac was gold
But he didn't say it was ten years old
He tok you out to the Red Coach grill
But he forgot the cash and you paid the bill
And he told you the story of his life
But he forgot the part about...his wife! Huh! Huh!
Well, these are the-breaks.com!
Break it up, break it up, break it up!
Break down!
Good luck.
it's a constant state of flux if you're a hobbit like us.
welcome to the club.
i'm
Uhhhhhhhhh....................... wow
With Tony I'm never alone.
I have a pretty strict classification for friends, everyone else just falls into the acquaintances category. A friend will:
1.) Drive me to the airport
2.) Help me move
3.) Bail me out of jail
4.) Drive out into the middle of nowhere in the middle of the night when my car breaks down.
When I apply that, I have maybe five friends. And a lot of those guys are more and more busy as well as get older.
My advice: If it's not working out with your friends, call up your family members (brothers, cousins, whatever) or go out for drinks with some co-workers.
Advice? BBQ's are a good way to meet people (friends of friends at least), join clubs, gym, go back to school, get an after work job that's more sociable, etc. Booze are a good way to loosen your tongue if you're shy.
When you're an adult people tend to get caught in the habit of getting up, going to work and coming home. You gotta either quit your job then or learn to break free from that cycle.
saying... i just feel all grown up here.
i heart soulstrut... thanks for growing older with me!
you sound friendless
I imagine a lonely, skinny lurker making this post and then blowing his head off with a Magnum .44
This is the truth, I have maybe three or four friends like this. I have never been one to have a lot of aquantince type freinds. When there are not a lot of people to hang with its good to appreciate being alone. I traveled around eroupe by myself a bit, and it was one of the best travel experinces I ever had. I did what I wanted to and once I got over feeling like a loser for being by myself and realized it was all good I started talking to locals and really enjoying myself. Make the most of the alone time, its really not that bad.
I have had absolutely no luck getting any of my friends out to the golf course all summer and it's depressing because my game improved so much from some extra time at the range (slice... be gone!!!).
A lot of my friends are the type that will say Friday night, "Dude, that's awesome. I'll totally go." I call them up Saturday morning at the very not-early hour of, say, 11 a.m. and get no answer. Then I get a call around 5 p.m. with them saying, "Let's do something outside. I don't want this nice day to go to waste." Shit is annoying. I was thinking of joining a tennis club or something.
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You are not alone
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mediocrity and friends
not exactly airtight, but the principle is. Kind of the same as "books or children?" Most of us choose the latter. But you never want too many friends. In the end, friends move away, hang out at chic bars doing coke, sell out and become bankers, screw you over a girl, put you down to raise themselves up and they take up all your time. You dont want to find yourself as ms Dalloway, either.
Ive been friendless several times in my life. Its no big deal and gives you the oppurtunity to become friends with yourself, not in a literal way you perverts. It also gives you the oppurtunity to make friends with the universe, if there is one different from one's own mind. Embrace silence.
So you base who you call your true "friends" by what they will do for you?