have you ever had a real world stalker
CousinLarry
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When I first started dating my girlfriend she told me about this wierd guy who was always trying to follow her around campus. He was nuts but seemed harmless one day he followed her into the waiting room at student heath and she told him she would kick his ass if he didnt leave. He left. He wasn't really a devoted stalker. All this stalker talk got me wondering why the fuck people do that type of shit.
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thanks
So I guess the moral is
GIRLS: BE SAFE! GET OFF COLLEGE RADIO!
I had this girl that always used to call into my show. Being all flirtatious and whatnot.
She knew who I was and tracked me down one late night at a bar.
I ended up banging her.
I kept making excuses to hang out. Then one day she was just standing at the radio station after my show was over. I ended up going to her house where she proceeded to tell me....
"I just want you to hold me".....
You can imagine my discomfort/regret for even hitting it in the first place.
She proceeded to call me constantly for two months. Show up where I was and etc...
I finally had to be mean to her for her to leave me alone.
Does that count as being stalked?
DJ Ferrari
He lived in the same neighbourhood as me and whenever we saw each other, he'd follow me for blocks and also try to have conversations. I had made it really clear by calmly telling him over and over to not approach or follow me or try to talk with me, that I did not want to be his friend or even acquaintance.
At a show one time, I saw him and my girlfriends knew about him already and so they created this barrier at the table we were sitting at and he fucking pushed his way through them and start talking to me about nonsense (where you from, what's your name, you look like you might be from __________ or __________ or __________, do you want to go for coffee, blah blah blah). I saw him at the Museum once and I was with my parents and the fucker came up to us and started talking his usual nonsense. My parents caught on right away and we walked away.
It all came to a head when I saw him at an art show and I lost it (in front of my then new roommate who must have thought I was a fucking freak)and yelled at him and told him fuck off and leave me alone or else I'd get my friends to kick his ass. It was not a proud moment for me, but I was at the end of my rope.
was this guy following you to all these places? if not, maybe there was a connection.
Yea, it could have been coincidence, and it probably was, but the fact that he kept on once we saw each other was not cool at all. And why keep persisting after he had been told over and over to stay away?
good story...
so what happened?
Wanting what we can't have is kind of one of the basic intentions that make us human, but we sensibly choose to apply it more to records than people.
If a record told you, 'You are never gonna catch this heat, no matter how much you beg!!', will you want it more?
Unfortunately, the people who apply this to other people, are the people who are sadly taking it too far and need a good beating for their stalkings.
Stalkers (the ones who can make us think they are lonely or sad) are sadly a bit too weird in the head... And I'll be damned if I'm being nice to lonely sad people!!! .... man they can get on your LAST nerve!!
Nobody likes a stalker.
Let this be a lesson to you, kids.
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So there was this one chick, who everyone hated openly to her face. She was about 6'6 and built like a brick shithouse (State hockey champion). I felt really sorry for her so i made an effort to ask her to sit with me on breaks, talk to her etc.
So musical wraps- and the phone calls in the middle of the night to my home phone start. "hi its BLANK is Nick there" to my parents at like 2 in the morning. "oh hi nick just wanted to see what you were doing"
ummmm sleeping?
So i decided to let her know that i wasn't interested in her like that and she needed to stop persuing me. I thought it would be kinder to do it by email, so she wouldn't have to get upset in front of anyone. So she turns up at my usual bus stop, after getting the email, and threatens my brother with a hockey stick. Rants to everyone there that i "used her" and "led her on" and she was "going to fucking kill me"
So i had to change where i hung out, how i got home etc becuase she was everywhere i used to be (and like 10' taller than me, and ANGRY)
eventually she moved to the other side of the country, haven't heard from her since.
You hit it, didn't you.
i ACTUALLY shuddered when i read that
So what was discussed earlier is true, you want what you can't get & gain more confidence chatting up to someone with whom you don't feel nervous. But as far as I'm concerned this ain't the real thing, I need them goosebumps to know I'm with the right girl.
I think thats what this greamlin is for.