Bad Break up problems (NRR)
volumen
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SO i made the crucial mistake of going out with someone working next to my work. Turns out she was a lier and a cheat. Pulled a bunch of BS and now I have to see her hanging out with the 2 others guys she's lying to. I guess all I can do is just suck it up. I realize she's the fucked up on and I'm better off, but it's still a bit madning. Everytime I see them I just want to start popping caps. It's not like I want her back, I just hate her and I feel sorry for the poor saps getting themselves into the same hell I just went through. How do you all deal with bad break ups? Getting drunk and high isn't the awnser. I was thinking it might be a good time to meditate. I have my health and I'm free of a controling psycho so i should be happy right? 
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Yeah it is
What are you "breaking up" with exactly? some chick next office over you were dating? Not exactly the end of the earth is it?
:/
That was the best fuckin I ever had.
That's because you been dealin with Dasheese
You gotta leave? Where you goin sugar?
I got business to take care of
[Ghostface]: No shit.
Shit that's my old man, shit!
Ya better go talk to him
No smokin alarms
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I'm mind shockin, body rockin, earth shakin, money makin
Sittin high, lookin fly, drinkin on the best wine...
Yo bitch I fucked your friend, yeah you stank hoe
I seen her on the elevator, honey grabbed my Kangol
She put me on to mega-shit, bout to slap the bitch
She shot crazy verbal, I leaned back like I'm rich
It took place late night on February 17th
Hands flooded like ink, my face is on her magazine
Just got back from Honolulu, pockets stackin boucoup cash
Girlfriend sipped the Yoo-hoo and laughed, yo
While I was on tour, whore, you went to work
Quick fast, had a nigga dick in the dirt
You couldn't wait just to kidnap the bait of my sperm
Where's you at, hoe? 'Pinky house, she put in my perm'
That's all you ever said to me, thought that could hold me
Remember when I long-dicked you and broke your ovary?
You crab bitch, chickenhead hoe, eatin' heros
I'm the first nigga that had you watchin flicks by DeNiro
You gained crazy points, baby, just bein with God
Taught you how to eat the right foods, fast, and don't eat lard
I gave you earth lessons, I came to you as a blessin
You didn't do the knowledge what the God was manifestin
You sneaky fuck bitch, your ways and actions showed it all
I fucked you while you was bleedin, held you down in malls
Sexually you worshipped my di-dick like a cross
I had you fiend out, broke out, for a month you fell off
You was my main shit, my peeps showed you love on the strength
You saw how I got down, the way I thought had you trank
But you had to fuck this lobster-head ass nigga
I shoulda slapped ya but the Gods said "Chilllllllll...
That's your wiz fault, god, handle that in the lab"
I'm wonderin how many times your hot ass got stabbed
You dumb bitch, horny hot fuck from out the mountains
Your clientele is low hoe, catch you next show, bro
I got jerked, gave away my pussy, that shit hurt
It feel like somebody died or shot your old Earth
But fuck it, I fucked you on a chair with three legs
Broken tables, had you screamin while you was bitin on my cables
Whistlin to the washing machine, I threw it on spin
If your pussy dry, spit on my dick and put it in
My dick's the bomb baby, marvelous hot steak
Plus I'm conceited Starks make the biggest so-called rape
I'm God Cipher Divine love my pussy refined
That means clean the FDS smell with a shine
Word up, respect that hoe
If you don't want to be with a lying cheater than you are in the best place possible: not with a lying cheater.
I understand this, and I*n is totally right, but fuck its a lot easier to say than to do. Me and my ex broke up on my birthday (last week) and that shit stung. I'm pretty much over it but the pain of it happening is the real bitch.
Luckily I don't gotta see that bitch anymore but if I had to see her daily I'd be upset as fuck.
My advice is hold your head up, let time heal all wounds, keep good friends around you and let her be her.
stay up homie.
Only a couple months, so it wsn't a huge deal. It mainly just pisses me off that people of the world can really suck. Plus, she passes her self off as punk rock and so progressive and better than every one else. But the truth is that she's just as screwed up as the people she hates. I am totally ignoreing her, but I really don't think she cares. She's used to guys that she can walk all over, so when I stood up to her BS suddenly she did have time to talk.
In a very bizare way I feel bad for her, cuz she's really screwed up. At first she acted cool (like everyone does) but slowly I fugured her out and she would even just blurt out stuff that you shouldn't be telling people. Once I started calling her on her crap she was like "oh I need to work on myself and you shouldn't be burdened with me". Cut to 2 weeks later and she already has 2 more suckers lined up. I guess the kicker is that one of them works on the same block as us as well. It's like one big disfunctional insest fest!!!!!!
I'd like to warn the guy, but you know he would never listen.
That's no shit there! I keep telling myself that, but usually when you break up with someone you don't have to still see them everyday.
Anyhow, it's nice to hear from others so I thank you. Have a couple vacations planned in the next 2 weeks so I think a little time away and I'll get over it.
Alos, a lot of it is being mad at myself for picking these women. She was the worst but not the first. I tend to feel sorry for these screwed up girl and do the whole "oh if I'm nice to them they'll come around", but that's just plain stupid!!!!!!!!
thats an important point. learn from that.
I wonder that, but I think it's more my frustrations about the human race. Pretty much 2 weeks into it I could tell she was a screw up, but I kept giving her a chance like a dummy. So if anything I just don't have enough control over myself. I don't miss her a bit and I'm glad she's gone. I just see her like Bush, no matter how good I am people keep shitting all over humanity for their own selfish gain. Welcome to Earth i guess!!!!!!
I just had a real bad break up 3 months ago. How I dealt with it was by trying to gas myself in my new car. It seemed like a good idea because a couple dudes I know did it successfully. Unfortunately (or fortunately depending on how my day is going, things are still real touch & go) I got interrupted and put under daily psych care for the next 5 weeks & on anti-depressants, for a couple months. I am off the pills now so that is a small step I guess. But I don't reccomend break-ups and (today at least) I don't reccomend suicide. I do reccomend buying heaps of music, new guitar, old friends (not buying them but spending time with) & going to as many shows as possible.
glad to hear you failed, bro.
Been thinking about your situation, hope things look up.
Wow thanks for sharing that. Its stories like this that really put stuff in perspective. My recent breakup sucked but at least it wasn't THAT painful. Holmes keep your head up and check your PM's
You are right about surrounding yourself with positive things, there really is no better way to handle it. Suicide ain't the answer, its really just an escape, and a bad one at that.
and from another angle just remember that as a person its good to feel dissapointment and pain every once in a while. Its a human emotion, don't ignore it, learn how to deal with it and watch yourself become a stronger person because of that
Thanks man, that PM you sent when I was pretty low was really appreciated.
Man, my life just got a lot better. Glad you didn't pull that off. You live in one of the most visually stunning countries in the world. Get out their and enjoy it. I'm going on a hike for the 4th so I'm sure it will help put things into perspective. I plan on putting your "get out with friends" advice to good use this weekend.
holy shit that IS the motherfuckin break up song right there!
i did exactly that last time i had girl troubles, took the advice, fucked her friend and felt a lot better about myself.
this is the type of medicine I've been taking
this is the realest shit i've heard all month....
because time wounds all heels!
I bet if you started banging one of the guys it would really piss her off...
Or them two dudes...
volumen.... from the sounds of it, you werent with the gal for too long anyways, and she was a ho-bag... so move on dude, she wasnt the one for you. and dont try and convince yourself that she was. smoke some weed, drink some beers, and find a gal who appreciates you. it sounds hard, but its actually pretty easy.
dude, dont try and flip my words around. I am not gay holme boy.
I used to beleive that, but no longer. I grew to think that if I felt better simply cause I knew that live balances out in some cosmic revenge type shit then I am just being petty. I think its kinda wrong to wish harm on others. Kinda sinks you down to thier level.
When you've been burned hard enough following this type of thinking is rough, but once your able to do it... shit is like zen.
You mad?
I've been there. Twice. That's what happens when you're a guy working in childcare, surrounded by women and no other men around. The worst was being assistant teacher to the girl I was dating. After we broke up she was still basically my boss. We were the only two employees in that classroom and that made it very tough. My only advice about that is don't get into a relationship with someone you will likely see everyday.
Again, when I feel frustrated with large, faceless groups of people, it generally has more to do with me than with them. Face it, people don't like it when the world doesn't work the way they want it to. Some might try to say that's just some childish shit, but I don't think I've ever met an adult who doesn't get pissed sometimes because things aren't going their way. What I mean is, don't worry so much about how this girl is doing this shit to other guys, just worry about how you're not going to let that happen to you again.