Relationship woes...
Skip Drinkwater
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I recently met a real cool chick, but the problem is she lives in another state and is going back in a few days. what sucks is I dig her, but at the same time I know there can't be a future due to the circumstance. I can't help but get attatched when I see her, but I know it's pointless...kinda sucks. anyone else been in a similar situation and have any advice? I feel like i'm in a lose/lose situation here...
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there are other fish in the sea. if you cant get over it, move to where she's from.
If it's meant to be then it will be eventually.
I wish there was some way to just snap out of it and play it cool like I know I should...If anyone has any more knowledge or advice to drop for young siro, it would be much appreciated...
I mean, this is about as simple as it gets. Either you let it go or you try to take it to the limit (one more tiiiiiiime).
Just make the best of the time you got right now. Isn't it about time to resurrect TheMack advice column?
Line up in the puccini while you still can dawg. you know someone will be pokin that out back home
Get your interstate baller status up.
you've accumulated honies all across the map?
I had lots of long distance relationships. They don't work.
When I met my wife she said she was getting ready to move to Syracuse NY (think hell frozen over). I told her I was coming with her. That was almost 21 years ago. The 31st will be our 19th anniversary.
I have no idea what you should do, but after a while you might get tired of letting the good ones get away.
In Chi I'm Mike
Boston I'm Kenny
In Miami I'm Timmy
and Phoenix I'm Penny
Stop being hard on yourself, you are a human being and human beings fall in love... its part of who we are... the world needs more love, why do we break our necks running from it...
I never feel so alive as when I've had a broken heart... it gets no realer...
...ahh the bitter sweet days of spring time with love on the mind...
crying is good too...
but plaese, not over this.
"to all the girls i've loved before..."
spicy!
for the kufi set:
I like 'em brown, yellow, puerto rican, & haitain.
Now you got Siemens furniture...
it took me a good 7 years to figure that line out. I always thought he said "cement"
Hey Siro,
I may be biased here (ex-fiancee related), but long-distance relationships are not a great idea. Sure, absence makes the heart grow fonder, but familiarity (with someone she has contact with regularly) breeds attraction. Feel me? This is basically what happened to me while away at grad school, the old-ex became "familiar" with some G.I. Plus, she was in a rush to get to the altar while I was concerned (more) with earning a Ph.D. But, I digress, for your heart's sake, I wouldn't pursue a relationship with the young lady unless one of you relocates.
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
Have you passed the physical threshold? That helps.
Do what I did when the girl of my dreams was about to move away. Offer to put her up, rent free, for a year and then move together. Or have her stay if where she's going is busted. I can't believe I pulled it off but it was all or nothing. I had to go for it. Never even thought of putting a girl up before but she felt like the one. She insisted on paying rent and we've been together for 4 years and it's getting better. Just sayin', if she's worth it, do something risky and don't worry if you fuck it up because she's leaving anyway.
Any other girl and i would have said, cya....ex to the next.
that usually just leads to a nice game of "just the tip"...