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How Do you Deal With Insecurity

kennykenny 1,024 Posts
edited October 2005 in Strut Central
go jogging ?see a psych. ?see a shrink ?go to self development classes ?get a girlfriend ?
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  • BrianBrian 7,618 Posts
    what kind of insecurity
  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts
    oops.

    i mean self insecurity...emotional shit. yao ?
  • CommonwealthCommonwealth 27 Posts
    Yo gotta just look inside and find your way that you can best see beyond that which needn't be. Oh, and listen closely to some of the great musicians on the records you own.
  • meatyogremeatyogre 2,080 Posts
    you need to strengthen your CHI energy. Take Yoga, Kung-Fu, Tai Chi, or something of the sort. When your body and mind are unstable, so is your emotions. If youve been through some traumatizing shit in your life, its going to be harder to deal with, but that means you just gotta try harder. Also, try surrounding yourself with only positive people, as negativity is only going to make your insecurities worse. However, no one is going to change YOU. Only YOU can change YOU. The easier you can control your emotions, the easier it is to let go of the petty bullshit you're holding on to thats making you insecure in the first place.

    Either that or experiment with psychedelics like I did when I was a bit younger... and blow your mind.



  • DJelV2000DJelV2000 322 Posts
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  • street_muzikstreet_muzik 3,919 Posts
    I deal with it on an insecurity by insecurity basis.
  • puchitopuchito 374 Posts
    Point Out other people's flaws and short comings.

    Berate and insult other people.

    Substance Abuse.

    Work Out.

    Buy expensive clothing.

    Wear colonge.

    Drive an imported automobile.

    Insult people different from you.

    Operate under a false and distorted self perception of supiority.

    Exxagerate your effect on the people around you.

    Aqquire a high paying job.

    Join a country club.

    Sleep with a large amount of members of the opposite sex.

    Cheat on signifigant other.

    Obsess over trivial and umimportant aspects of life (like records) and convince your self that it sets you apart from other people.

    Get a PhD.

    Get into physical altercations i.e. brawls

    Yell at cashiers.

    Steal.

    Talk with a fake street accent.

    Overachieve.



    Inflict pain in everypossible way on the people invovled in your life.



    These are not the things that I persoanlly do, but seem to be some common ways people deal with insecurity.




  • DjArcadianDjArcadian 3,630 Posts
    If you're insecure about something you can change then work to change it. You're being awfully vague so giving constructive advice is difficult.
  • idiotproofidiotproof 880 Posts
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    Man that shit ain't funny. Friend of mine went that way & it was

    In fact it ended tragically. Manifested into depression & dependence resulting in a fatal accident.
    Not cool. Not cool at all.

  • KineticKinetic 3,739 Posts
  • GrafwritahGrafwritah 4,184 Posts
    Just logic that shit out.

    Most anything that involves self insecurity can be thought of logically. Rejected by a girl? There are billions more, plus just about anything (jobs, girls, whatever), only about 1% of it works out (if you're picky at all). Think you're ugly? Most models are airbrushed like a motherfucker and there's always a lot of people uglier than you.

    It's all #s, dog.
  • street_muzikstreet_muzik 3,919 Posts
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    Man that shit ain't funny. Friend of mine went that way & it was

    In fact it ended tragically. Manifested into depression & dependence resulting in a fatal accident.
    Not cool. Not cool at all.


    Not cool, but maybe honest.
  • DJelV2000DJelV2000 322 Posts
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    Man that shit ain't funny. Friend of mine went that way & it was

    In fact it ended tragically. Manifested into depression & dependence resulting in a fatal accident.
    Not cool. Not cool at all.


    I didn't realize we entered "The No Joke Zone"


    no sence of humor =
  • faux_rillzfaux_rillz 14,343 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?
  • puchitopuchito 374 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?



    I don't think there is any reason to be hostile or volatile here.

    Perhaps choosing to react in this particular manner, reveals that your own ways of dealing with insecurities are ineffective.

    Maybe you just need a hug?
  • idiotproofidiotproof 880 Posts


    Cool man, if you want to joke about that stuff then fine.
    Probably a bit to close to home for me.

    Dude sounded like he was asking for valid help.
    One needs to listen to people when they have probs. In real life, on phone even on message boards.
    Being dismissive with a jovial image isn't always what they want.

    Breaking down a friends door trying to help them because they felt like they couldn't do anything worthy is not a wonderful thing to do.

  • asprinasprin 1,765 Posts
    I knew sooner or later, a hatter would step in here.

    Kenny, remind yourself that all that you see around you, including yourself is temporary. Enjoy the time you have on this earth. It is limited.
  • Jonny_PaycheckJonny_Paycheck 17,825 Posts
    Point Out other people's flaws and short comings.

    Substance Abuse.

    Buy expensive clothing.

    Wear colonge.

    Drive an imported automobile.

    Sleep with a large amount of members of the opposite sex.

    Obsess over trivial and umimportant aspects of life (like records)


    Fuck that what are you trying to say
  • mylatencymylatency 10,475 Posts
    Dude this is what I rzarrected the advice column thread for in the announcements... bah.



    Yah, do what the other dudes are saying. Asprin knows the time.
  • faux_rillzfaux_rillz 14,343 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?



    I don't think there is any reason to be hostile or volatile here.

    Perhaps choosing to react in this particular manner, reveals that your own ways of dealing with insecurities are ineffective.

    Maybe you just need a hug?

    I was joking.

    But really, dude, give it a fucking break.
  • dayday 9,611 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?

  • youngEINSTEINyoungEINSTEIN 2,443 Posts
    there are books.
  • faux_rillzfaux_rillz 14,343 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?
    Man I bet you're one slap away from being a straight bitch yourself.


    Let the dude ask what he wants without chiming in with your unnecessary bullshit.

    Spare me.
  • GrafwritahGrafwritah 4,184 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?



    I don't think there is any reason to be hostile or volatile here.

    Perhaps choosing to react in this particular manner, reveals that your own ways of dealing with insecurities are ineffective.

    Maybe you just need a hug?

    I was joking.

    But really, dude, give it a fucking break.

    What faux is trying to say is that a little bit of insecurity and self-loathing does a body good.
  • dayday 9,611 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?
    Man I bet you're one slap away from being a straight bitch yourself.


    Let the dude ask what he wants without chiming in with your unnecessary bullshit.

    Spare me.

    Ha. I deleted it for everyone's benefit but fuck it. Yeah, I said it and I meant it.
  • parsecparsec 5,087 Posts
    Point Out other people's flaws and short comings.

    Berate and insult other people.

    Substance Abuse.

    Work Out.

    Buy expensive pink clothing.

    Wear colonge.

    Drive an imported automobile.

    Insult people different from you.

    Operate under a false and distorted self perception of supiority.

    Exxagerate your effect on the people around you.

    Aqquire a high paying job as an arrogant lawyer.

    Join a yacht club.

    Cheat on signifigant other.

    Obsess over trivial and umimportant aspects of life (like records) and convince your self that it sets you apart from other people.



    Sounds about right.
  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts
    i have no intention to bring in any bad vibes on here what so ever, i just wanted to hear some words from other people.

    i will leave my personal problems out of here from now on

    Asprin those words put me to a new perspective though thanks.

  • Hotsauce84Hotsauce84 8,450 Posts
    What the f**k kind of b**ch schitt is this?
    Man I bet you're one slap away from being a straight bitch yourself.


    Let the dude ask what he wants without chiming in with your unnecessary bullshit.

    Spare me.

    Ha. I deleted it for everyone's benefit but fuck it. Yeah, I said it and I meant it.

    Wow. Faux's getting it from everyone tonight!





    [color:white]I'll help you dump 'em in the Pond, hoLmes. ZG por vida, loco![/color]
  • Hotsauce84Hotsauce84 8,450 Posts


    i will leave my personal problems out of here from now on


    Don't do that, dude. We're Most of us are here for you. And I'm sure you'll be there for us when needed.

    Herm
  • GrafwritahGrafwritah 4,184 Posts


    i will leave my personal problems out of here from now on


    Don't do that, dude. We're Most of us are here for you. And I'm sure you'll be there for us when needed.

    Perhaps a little elaboration on kenny's part is in order.
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