roommate etiquette
mallard
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i have come to the realization today that my roommates girl stays here during the day whenever she pleases. everyone else works and today is my first day of unemployment, so you can imagine the instant 
i had on display when i walked downstairs and saw her shoes were here.
my roomate and I have had this discussion before about having her over. i said she was over too much (sometimes 3 nights in a row), and he said he can't just tell her "no". there's really nothing even going on between them, it's just a sympathy thing and it's getting in the way of my unemployment yoga.
do i step to the girl, try to reinforce it with my roommate, or shut my yap?
I PAY TO LIVE HERE!!!!
i had on display when i walked downstairs and saw her shoes were here. my roomate and I have had this discussion before about having her over. i said she was over too much (sometimes 3 nights in a row), and he said he can't just tell her "no". there's really nothing even going on between them, it's just a sympathy thing and it's getting in the way of my unemployment yoga.
do i step to the girl, try to reinforce it with my roommate, or shut my yap?
I PAY TO LIVE HERE!!!!
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this is my philosophy, but i've never had a steady girl (
dudes w/wifeys, this is a legit rule, non?
I was going tosay that too. Try to get some afternoon lovin' Tell you you want the back door or she's going to have to use the front door to get out!
Yes.
it shouldn't be an issue of being over too much,
as long as ol' girl has her own residence.
but ol' girl is there and his roommate isn't.
that is not cool.
occasionally sleeping in is one thing,
reclining on the sofa while her dude
isn't even around is another.
the thing about this is, we're all musicians. so lady love is chilling in her bedroom with the door locked thinking i'm none the wiser and it's no biggie. but i know she's here and now i can't go down to the basement, light one up and rip off a quick peart solo because girlie would catch feelings fer sher. a few times when songs were being created she sat down in the living room adjacent and started watching tv like it was no big deal. totally distracting tho.
she doesn't.
cygnus x-1 yer fuckin' heart out.
if this is the general consensus, OK then. but what do i do about it? the girl is a legitimate "princess", and believes the world revolves around her. my roommate is totally under her sympathy spell. do i really have to scare her away?
Tap it
Kick her out.
in any order as long as kicking her out is last
But for real. Same situation I had on my hands. I moved out.
She didnt have a job and neither did I. I would get up in the AM and Watch porn in my boxers for about 3 hours. I figured that would be enough to send this girl away. NOPE.
She started watchin porn with me everyday. For my birthday she bought me a book that lists hundreds of porn movies from the 70's and 80's and gives little write ups about them.
I had to move out.
tap it first though son.
it depends on 3 things
a. how many hit points the princess has
b. what level spell your roommate is under
c. How many rolls and with which die will you get to increase your stamina?
just kidding.
I still think you should order some hookers, you never know mallard. Check craigslist.
i will consider.
seriously tho, i just got back from the PO across the street and i walk in and shes sprawled out in the living room, HGTV in full effect. now i can't feel comfortable doing anything downstairs. this shit has gone too far. she doesn't even have a ride so i know she's not leaving any time soon.
this is seriously out of control.
Anyway, unless you're cool with your roommate's signif and you don't see the point in getting cool, then yeah... he's/she's got to go.
I can hang with a cool chick all day though, as long as she can make a mean pancake or omelette.
Talk to her while it's kicking, look her straight in the eyes.
Whatever happens you'll be happier.
NB
yueah. she will either fuck ya or leave. neither can be that bad.