it's not just how society views the abusers, but how they view and treat the victims/survivors.
Good observation.
I wonder if boys/men have to deal with the feeling that it was their fault, or they allowed it happen. more than girls/women.
i think a lot of it depends on the personalities involved. its not hard to imagine a psychotic or aggressive woman, for example...
making a kid feel guilty (not that he shouldn't already - she's nasty looking). i think in most cases though, younger men would get the high 5 treatment.
So your thinking if she is hot, and doesn't need to use drugs and alcohol to get laid it's ok, but if she looks like a meth whore it is abuse?
it's not just how society views the abusers, but how they view and treat the victims/survivors.
Good observation.
I wonder if boys/men have to deal with the feeling that it was their fault, or they allowed it happen. more than girls/women.
i think a lot of it depends on the personalities involved. its not hard to imagine a psychotic or aggressive woman, for example...
making a kid feel guilty (not that he shouldn't already - she's nasty looking). i think in most cases though, younger men would get the high 5 treatment.
So your thinking if she is hot, and doesn't need to use drugs and alcohol to get laid it's ok, but if she looks like a meth whore it is abuse?
hell yeah.
because no man/ boy, teenager, whatever in they're right mind does not want to have sex with a hot woman, no matter the age. but if she's ugly and in a position of power, then it's probably not consensual.
we have all of these societal constraints attached to the issue, but my sex drive has been pretty consistent since I was about 13, and I've always liked older women...I'm sure there are a lot of young boys like this...
it's not just how society views the abusers, but how they view and treat the victims/survivors.
Good observation.
I wonder if boys/men have to deal with the feeling that it was their fault, or they allowed it happen. more than girls/women.
i think a lot of it depends on the personalities involved. its not hard to imagine a psychotic or aggressive woman, for example...
making a kid feel guilty (not that he shouldn't already - she's nasty looking). i think in most cases though, younger men would get the high 5 treatment.
So your thinking if she is hot, and doesn't need to use drugs and alcohol to get laid it's ok, but if she looks like a meth whore it is abuse?
hell yeah.
because no man/ boy, teenager, whatever in they're right mind does not want to have sex with a hot woman, no matter the age. but if she's ugly and in a position of power, then it's probably not consensual.
we have all of these societal constraints attached to the issue, but my sex drive has been pretty consistent since I was about 13, and I've always liked older women...I'm sure there are a lot of young boys like this...
THANK YOU
Man, once a dude hits puberty he'll pretty much put his dick in some warm mashed potatoes, so if a grown woman wants to get down I think it's safe to say the majority of males 14 + up would have at it.
You would have to be desperate, intoxicated, threatened or tied up to hit that up there though [/shiver].
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So your thinking if she is hot, and doesn't need to use drugs and alcohol to get laid it's ok, but if she looks like a meth whore it is abuse?
hell yeah.
because no man/ boy, teenager, whatever in they're right mind does not want to have sex with a hot woman, no matter the age. but if she's ugly and in a position of power, then it's probably not consensual.
we have all of these societal constraints attached to the issue, but my sex drive has been pretty consistent since I was about 13, and I've always liked older women...I'm sure there are a lot of young boys like this...
THANK YOU
Man, once a dude hits puberty he'll pretty much put his dick in some warm mashed potatoes, so if a grown woman wants to get down I think it's safe to say the majority of males 14 + up would have at it.
You would have to be desperate, intoxicated, threatened or tied up to hit that up there though [/shiver].