I Met this girl randomly
kenny
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we barely know each other, we chatted for 5 hrs about hip-hop, what she do for a living, her family and other things. We drank beer, we laughed and we went for dessert.After dessert I only thanked her for her company and let it went by. I spent the rest of the weekend regretting that...Am I an idiot ?
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yeah
i mean, shit - how often does this kind of shit happen to you?
...you didn't get her number/contact info? This seems like the only thing to really regret, unless she sent out very clear messages that she wanted to bed you.
that's what i'm thinking man. you got any way of getting in touch with her again?
she was here for 5 days and we met the day before she took off.
plus she's got man back home.
If all you missed was a one night stand don't get too bent out of shape.
i didn't want to signal anything, knowing she's got a man and all.
i guess i was wrong.
fuck it, anyway...better luck next time.
good point.
but, i wasn't looking for that.
it was too good of a night just for that.
nope not married.
not sure why
build repore,
qualify,
CLOSE THE DEAL!!!
It's pretty simple!
No, you did what felt right for you and the circumstance. Sounds like you have things in common and like speaking with each other - unless you are only interested in getting her into bed - it sounds like you can still have some sort of friendship.
Plant the seed that someday may grow into a mighty oak, one never knows the future.
and enjoy a nice memory, nothing wrong with that.
i'm just not sure that's gonna help in this situation
i think i'll just keep it as a good memory.
friendship with someone you had feelings with is hard to keep, not to mention long distance.
perhaps once in a while a small catch-up email, but otherwise, i think i should move on.
Sometimes, I feel if you throw caution to the wind, it makes even better when you randomly run into her again in some other part of the world.
Best advice in this whole thread.
You just made me shoot coffee through my nose.
chatting about hip hop for 5 hours? i'd need a nap or 2.
Whoa I don't think Kenny's looking to be an unwed father but then again I don't know the dude