i hate my baby momma
Burns
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Damn, finally found it, the sweet sound, that i can play to my daughters mom every time she picks her up. Hope someone out there feels me. Single fathers get no justice even when they play by the rules. I hate the situation. Can't have my baby on Christmas Eve night nor Christmas morning, gots to wait till the afternoon. Three Six Mafia says just right...
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Havent seen My little girl in 3 years, thanks to her so called mother.
Your right about dads not getting a fair shake, even when you play or should I say PAY by the rules, you still cant win.
Justice for Dads.
Peace
I'd advise trying not being too sullen about it, though. Try and turn that negative energy into something positive to make the experience the greatest it can be for both you and your daughter.
Don't let your ex deprive you of, both your daughter AND your happiness, yaoming? Don't let her affect your mind when she's not in your life, in that way, any longer.
Make the best you can out of the evening and then show your daugther a great time the next day. Enjoy YOUR vacation mayne, you've earned it.
Keep your head up.
stay strong man, and make that xmas afternoon the best day in your kids life.
The Ghost of xmas past
my friend's wife gave him a bong for xmas
then took pictures of him holding it under the tree
like 3 years later as they are getting divorced she brAeks out those condemming photos in court during the custody battle..............
cue up fishbone or group home
[hey ma and pa what the hell is wrong wrong with ya'll-?????]
of course Tom was smiling in all of the photos
and she smoked herb all thru their marrige
and she still won and got full custody
wicked
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I don't suggest running from your problems, but I have seen guys getting shafted hard when it comes to custody cases. Stay strong.
Planetary Alliance?!?!?! FUCKING AWESOME!!!!!!!!!
The ultimate
But what about the Planetary Alliance for Children In Exile?
True, however I would refuse to make the payments if I was refused access to the children.
So let me get this right: if your ex-partner is an ass...you'd basically stop supporting your own kids just to spite her?
Are you a father? I'm guessing not.
Well then you would suck.
Yeah, I think you may need to rethink that one. When the kid is 35 and still wondering why a grown man never paid their child support, that explanation ain't gonna cover it.
So let me get this right: if your ex-partner is an ass...you'd basically stop supporting your own kids just to spite her?
Are you a father? I'm guessing not.
Mao vs. Wang
At the same time, I'm sure there can't be that many cases.
Doctor from out of town comes to her hospital, and they begin dating. He's well-to-do, a surgeon with a nice trust fund--just perfect for her. Except he doesn't want to have kids. He won't sleep with her without a condom, so she decides to tell him she's on the pill and using a diaphragm. They get blood tests and start bumping uglies the old-fashioned way.
Problem is, she isn't on the pill and has deliberately poked holes in her diaphragm. Of course, she gets pregnant. As soon as she establishes paternity, she files for child support to the tune of approximately $8,000/month. They go to court.
Surgeon argues that signaling her intent to her coworkers and damaging the diaphragm constitutes fraud; judge counters that the wellfare of the child is the most important thing in the case. I think she ended up with something like $5,000/month in child support and a nice house. I don't think the surgeon ever applied for joint custody, and left town in disgust.
Moral of the story? Don't fuck unless you're ready for at least eighteen years of commitment.
Either that or get a vasectomy.
Last I checked, the lack of the legal right to assault women has hardly been a deterrent for hundreds of thousands of men to slap (or worse) women around.
You're right Odub. Though as has been said in this thread, it's never clear cut.
My girlfrinds brother got himself involved with an absolute NUTCASE for his first girlfriend who has pretty much destroyed the family and his career. She's assaulted him on numerous occasions, including kicking in his windscreen WHILE he was driving on the freeway, and getting into a fight at his grandpas 90th birthday. What happens to her? Nothing. After she locked herself in her house and threatened to kill herself, the cops that rocked up said to him "She's crazy, but we can't do anything."
Anyway, one night she's tormenting him about something or other, he restrains her and gives her a bruise on her arm. She tells his work, the cops, his shrink and his family that same night, and he loses everything.
Do I condone violence? Never in a milllion years. Did he do the right thing? Not at all. Is it a clear cut case of him being a wifebeater? I don't think so. His real mistake is not leaving her the first time she got crazy. But then he's "...a typical asshole male, who leaves her after he gets what he wants."
The most messed up thing is that after she's done all that, she still won't stop calling him. Is that what someone who's afraid for their safety does? The shit can get real complicated when it comes to men and women. I guess men have to be smart enough to know that going in, if the shit hits the fan it's gonna fall in favour of the woman.
Although I gotta stress I don't condone violence towards ANYONE, not just women.
His mother has had countless men in this time and at least three who have moved in with her only for the relationship to dissolve in one way or another.
You have only had one woman in your life who you refused to allow them to meet your son until you had been together six months and thought the relationship might go somewhere..
Your ex finds another man and gets pregnant by him within six months,has the baby and remain together.
The week after your sons seventh birthday you get an email from your ex letting you know that she has changed your sons second name to that of her current mans.This was 'because he wanted to be in a family and have the same name as his baby sister'.The ex hasn`t married the guy so she has a different name still.
You are powerless legally to do anything.
Having his name changed was treated like a birthday gift.
Holy fuck, that's horrible. True story?