SpouseStrut
wooshie
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I got to thinking....How many strutters have partners / spouses / girlfriends who share their interests / obsession in music / other arts hobbies? etcor.. How many strutters have partners / spouses / girlfriends who don't share their interests at all or place as much importance on music as you do? or are maybe equally obsessed with something completely different? (like fashion or some shit)My girlfriend doesn't share my taste in music, though she'll say when she likes something, she's just not as exposed or curious. she listens to more indie rock type stuff, she doesn't obsess or like to talk in detail about it either, infact she avoids being asked what music she's into. she seems to think it's boring to talk about it too much when you can just play it.But, we've been together for so long and get on so well and I don't think anyone knows me more, yet none of this has anything to do with our aspirations or career goals or taste or whatever. we connect because of something else.How many of ya'll became close to your partners because of common interests or something entirely different altogether?
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I think the collectro gene is present in 99% of males, hence hunting for graels etc. is only natural behaviour.
I once nearly proposed to a girl because she had a tape of Herbie's "Thrust" lying around in the back of her car which she'd acquired of her own free will. Now THAT is raer!
I think women have it for bags (and of course matching shoes/belts). See Imelda Marcos.
However she can't really get with a lot of jazz and has problems with some of the heavier rap I play. Having said that I listen to a lot of it on headphones travelling to and from work and I think you get a different impression of it then to having it blared out at you.
Overall she's very understanding of my musical tastes and has also widened my interest in a lot of guitar based music that I basically lost all connection with around the age of 14.
I'm very lucky to be with someone who has as many similar interests in the world as I do but who is independent and strong minded enough to give me a different reflection and opinion on life.
She's not down with a lot of the stuff I like but that's to be expected. I dig the fact that we can somewhat see eye to eye on stuff like music and film. The nice rack helps too....
Gangsta.
My wife is a big music fan, but our tastes are like a Venn diagram--a meeting in the middle, and a whole lot of territory that's our own.
she is also into cooking. In fact she is cooking up a vegan Indian feast for soulmarcosa this weekend. We were at the store and I asked her, "how come you are not bying any curry powder?" and she said...oh I am making my own, thats what the motar and pestle are for....
Does that copy have the you know what?
I wish my wife would cultivate this hobby! hell, I wish I were more interested in cooking, for that matter...
The songs, usually on 45, that she says she likes do take on special meaning to me; I love to play them out for her, sort of as my shout out to her. A wink and a nod...
I couldn't have asked for a better girl when it comes to living with, tolerating, and even loving my hobbies, interests, and obsessions.
we argue about bass levels - i am a big fan; him, not as much.
And she calls the music I make either "Yoyoyoyo-stuff" or "whale music".
She's a serious cook. you name it she can flip it.
She will let me linger in record spots forever, sweet talk the dude at the Bollywood spot to let me in the basement ,
and recently brought home that Yusef Lateef live at Cranbrook on Cadet from a thrift store cause her 6th sense told her I'd dig it.
We get along aright.
Sounds like we are married to the same woman...
Until the Neil Young / Dylan bit.