Why I can’t dig anymore! (my wife related)
Raystar
1,106 Posts
Homegirl is out of control, she be shopping! Everytime I check the bank account, theres like enough department store transactions and not cheap ones... she out getting her nails done now... my children are buffing the floor in designer clothes and shoes... I'll be lucky if I get a pair of socks! I don't know how much money I have to go to the record show jawn this sunday, I'm going to have to just sit and drink on sunday... man, she is breaking us...I'm trying to replace the windows in my house and she is killing the savings... at least if your going to be buying stuff, cop some ill sexy stuff to wear to bed...just venting...
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Drew is employed? Word Up!
Sounds like it's time to riff, homeslice!!!! You need to check that shit right away before you slide down that slippery slope to financial ruin. Impulse spending wrecks homes, holmes!!!
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
Wifey used all those up too?
...I'll be here all week...
funny...
Couldn't help it. But on the real, sitting down with the bank statements and having a little straight talk is a good plan. If you both have some goals (i.e. large purchases) that you'd like to see happen, talk that out. Short-term vs. long-term and working within a budget. That's a hard topic to sit down and hack through, but it might help.
Anybody ever hear of the playground??? It's free!
Good One! So it's safe to say she does you right!
As usual Mango your right... either that or I'm a pre-mature ejaculator...
We have done this... I think thats why she is spending like crazy because our new budget plan is set to start monday so I think shes getting her spending off before she has to slow down... I think she stressed a little, I notice she spends alot during stressful times even though we make more money now than we ever did...
Man,
Fuck all that!!!! I never put pussy before my money, and that's word!!!!
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
Let me Guess your Single.. LOL ahhahahaah....
WORD. hahaha. one summer back in high school, me and my friend went to the UCLA men's gym every other day to play ball. and we felt good about it, cuz we weren't blowing our money on stuff like nice little fruit drinks, nice clothes, and movie tickets. the only expense being gas money.
i know i do that sometimes on records...that and overeating at night.
Nah, duke, my wife and I just celebrated our 6th wedding anniversary. But, pussy shouldn't cloud one's judgment about financial management. Hell, my wife says the same thing, referring to the penile. She's tighter about loot than I am! Good ass is no justification for excusing bad spending habits. It can wreck the home. I've had friends who lost their homes over that shit. Shit is real!!!
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
Man, more dudes need to start thinkin' like pimps!!! Not the stereotypical pimp that beats on women- that's some b.s. right there. I'm talking about just what the man Stacks said, you do NOT put pussy before money! Once it is known that you are a weakling for the ill na-na, you are DONE. That's why women are the real macks out here, they got folls in check with that poontang. Reverse the game and if she don't go for that then do it like a p.i.m.p. and COP AND BLOW. (Just basic Dr Phill real talk, not directing this philosophy to anybody in particular.)
BUT, for y'all guys who have problems with wifey's spending habits, have you ever considered seperate accounts? Let her spend up all her cash then laugh at her broke ass when she doesn't have enough dough to put some petro into her car. That's what I do!!! I DON'T PLAY THAT SHIT, MANE.
Preach on, Phill!!!!! "Arrrrrrrrgh!!!!! You don't, huh, put puuuuuuusaaaaaay, beeeeeeeeeefore, your monaaaaaaaaaaay, heeeeeeeey!!!!! Huh!!!! Ya'll can't hear me dis eeeeeeeeevenin'!!!!"
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
man, when Im to that point in life, i may adopt your philosophy. Right now, I dont mind taking a girl out to eat and shit. Come on! Personally, as long as I can get by, I actually would rather spend my money out having a good time, or even doing nice things for other people rather than hording records or some shit.
On another note remeber Han Solo all he cared about was the loot in the beggining and look what happened at the end, that pussy whooped em....LOL hahahahha Though that pussy had loot! It's always easier for the ladeis than it is for the man...
Nobody said you can't take a woman out to eat, young fella. But she can take YOUR ass out to eat, too! You get what I'm sayin'? DON'T BE A SUCKER. Or be a sucker, shiiiiit... if that's what makes you happy, do your thing, son! Plenty of women out there are looking for dudes who like being suckers. In fact, you'll probably be very popular with the ladies with that philosophy! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
"Chuch"
Simple and plain, that's why I FUCKED[/b] fine chicks with no ambition (or loot, sometimes) when I was "out there" and single. But, I MARRIED[/b] a fine-lookin' woman with ambition, career aspirations (and now a career), money, and good sense. A fine chick that spends up all your loot with no apologies is NOT a keeper, ESPECIALLY if she doesn't bring any in or has no probability of doing so. Like I used to tell chicks, "pussy ain't a commodity, cause I can get that shit from the next chick. What else you got goin' besides your ass and tits?" Then, I'd step off. A girl could never front me with some pussy, cause that came waaaaaay too easy. If all a girl's got is ass, she's not worth staying with, and that's word!!!! Cats gotta learn to look for more from a woman than that (or just get played by a trick with no dough). Incidentally, no disrespect to those real, handlin' their business, ladies out there (like my wifey!!!).
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
thats fine. call me a sucker cause I wont treat women like Im some kind of pimp. I dont have shit to prove, But all that money before bitches talk sounds pretty weird coming from 3 married dudes. I really feel sorry for you if you'd still put money first before your wife.
Money is a necessity to me, but i sure as fuck dont love it. It helps me live comfortably and do the things I want to do, but beyond that Ill put people before money any day. Mabye thats different than "bitches", I dont know.
Im not out there throwing cash at hoes though, dont get it twisted. I wont even go to the strip club really. I dont usually associate with the type of women that would hang around because my money is long....mostly because my money is not, and it hasnt been a problem thus far. Sometimes this is challenging when you live in hollywood, but then im not out there making pornos or whatever either. Ive been with girls thats been paying for all my food one week when Ive been hard up for cash, Ive also turned around and helped out with and electric bill when Ive had the extra bread. Its give and take man. Ebb and flow. Money is like energy, and if you never put it out there, its not likely to come back to you.
But man, dont be thinking spending money is gonna get you any more ass than not. thats true in almost any situation.
Dog... you are missing the point totally. We are trying to school you on what's really good, youngin'! Don't get all offended, the "pimp" and "sucker" talk is just jokes. The science is real, though! If you think money is more important to me than the woman I am married to, you are not understanding me. My wife is priceless. STILL, I am not gonna be a sucker to her or ANY woman! You gotta have rules of conduct, son... even good women will take you for your dough to some degree if you behave like a sucker. Trust me, I've done the experiments. And just to be clear, men will take advantage of a woman too if they let him- it works the same both ways, I'm not trying to make it seem like women are these evil creatures or anything. The difference is that most woman know the deal and understand that most men are weak for poon! And they use that to their advantage, as damn well they should- they aren't playing on a level playing field in this world that we live in, so they're smart enough to turn the tables completely around! But if you let it happen to you, no woman is really gonna respect that, dude.
Instead of getting your feelings hurt over what's being said you need to just listen and take notes. Me, Stacks and Danny D-Rock are VETERANOS in the game, this is years of experience talking to you right now. You should be thanking us for taking you to chuch, young man! Keep listening to us and this could be you one day, shorty...