dating out of your league (obnoxious relationship post -R)
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So don't ask me how, but I've been dating this complete knockout model looking woman for last couple months, and sadly things are beginning to go down in flames. I've learned on a deep down level we're not meant to be, but cotdang... does she have the finest body (raer one of a kind style), prettiest face (raer squaerd), and to top it off, totally not afraid to use what she's got if you get my drift .
So it goes I guess, but now I'm starting now to look around at other women and slowly realizing that's its going to be really tough to go back to fish sticks now that i've been enjoying caviar .
why must i cry
So it goes I guess, but now I'm starting now to look around at other women and slowly realizing that's its going to be really tough to go back to fish sticks now that i've been enjoying caviar .
why must i cry
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Most folks never even get to taste caviar
I dated a girl like this in my first year at University. She was a sweetheart but just didn't understand the effect she had on men.
Enjoy it while you got it.
You didn't under any circumstances express the fact that you thought she was above you, now did you? That would've been a bad move.
A friend of mine consistently dates ladies that are far below him, i.e. fat girls. He always maintains the upper hand, that is, until they leave him. Sometimes I question his preferences but he always counters with, "That's my business!"
Charisma trumps looks everytime.
LOL...yeah, that's what she wants you to think.
You see fine looking ladies with fugly dudes all the time. George Clooney lookalike with failing personality may score a one-nighter with intoxicated girl from time to time, but women loose interest fast in any guy who has the personality of a sack of potatoes. Confidence + personality + that certain je ne sais quoi (charsima in a nutshell) = results resembling the Scorpions' 'Animal Magnetism' album cover. :cool:
It's not so much about her looks, but how you feel about yourself. I think I am the man, and I have always pulled women that had my boys going "Damn!!!" As someone said earlier, it is really about the charisma and confidence with which you stroll. The women that I dated knew that I had pull with the femmes, so that kept them honest. This equalizes the power in the relationship because she knows that you can step too, beyond the prospects she has with other men (since she's "gorgeous"). Long term, though, the "matching hypothesis" from social psychology states that the most stable relationships (particularly marriages) result when the two partners match on appearance, social class, education, values, and so on. Therefore, based on your descriptions of your and her relative attractiveness, the matching hypothesis would predict the relationship would fail down the line. Oh well, no theory predicts perfectly, so exceptions can occur. You can only be the man if you think you are the man. :real_headz:
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
Again, us men in an attempt to be optimistic want to believe that women are looking for a good-looking, fit dude with an electric personality...and when we see an ugly dude with a hot woman, we thus want to assume that it must be his amazing personality that put him in that position.
But our assumptions are wrong. Women are looking for the best candidates to be controlled, period. Looks and charisma generally have very little to do with it.
Who fuckin cares? There are plenty of women out there and to stay with one just because she is hot is a weak move. Trust me i did it, twice.
So shes hot? great for her, now move on and move up man.
Time to find a girl that actually suits you, she might not be as cute as your soon to be ex, or she might be cuter.
You pulled a looker once, no reason to say you will never do it again, but remember: Looks are just one piece of the puzzle man.
Or a book, a guide for youngbloods if you will.
Knowledge gems for days.
haha, u sound bitter as fuck man
:nagl:
Agreed. You have 12 hours or I'm locking this shit until you come correct.
Looks and charisma get a woman to your bed...that's true. But anything beyond that is a completely different ballgame.
So true, but there is a perfect predictor out there.
His name is Paul the Psychic Octopus.
BUT i know from experience that i have pulled some dime pieces but ONLY when i come across as super confident and make it seem as if i get girls similar to them ALL THE TIME
to add something else to the pot there have also been times where i was just on the rough patch of a break up where i don't really want to be out and don't feel confident about anything and i have met women. and they may not even look as good as some in the past but they can smell my confidence and i wasn't really possessing any at the moment...
it is all about portrayal. now either you are a handsome fella or you just have an award winning personality that can do that all the time. you know?
girls like games and you probably played with her a little bit. then again i don't know i am an idiot
^^^Disciples of...
^^^Rolls with penny rolls of women.
I'm of course busted up over things ending just like anyone would be, but add to that the extra dimension of losing the flyest female in the area code and suddenly you've got no where to go but down. Did I mention aside from being a near perfect physical specimen (according to my tastes anyways) , she's also is super funny, talented, and turns any where she goes into the party of the month.
she's like lightning in a 5,9 110 lb bottle
everyone else is boring and ugly in comparison
but i've won women back before, maybe i still have a few miracles left in me
Confidentiality agreements?
haha.
dude, lighten up.