Ever SIR a COP?

Hotsauce84Hotsauce84 8,450 Posts
edited July 2009 in Strut Central
I did this the another day to Officer Jerkheadface and immediately kicked myself for doing so.Problem is, I 'sir' and 'ma'am' folks ALL the time. Been doing so since I was a child (Mom was always on my case about manners). Now I do it without even thinking about it. I even confuse the little 17 year old dudes working at the mall. Ladies - 'specially ones younger than me that don't realize they're younger than me - give me a hard time saying "Don't call me that, it makes me feel old."Anyways, the other day after the Quik show, dumb ass street gang task force cop (they were out in FULL FORCE at that show) tells me to leave the parking lot and "go to your car." I said "yes sir" (doh!) and within 2 seconds gorilla ass fool was in my face saying "NOW!" I said "Wow, dude...really?!" and stared right back at him. He put his hand on his flashlight and I said "easy...I don't have a car," shook my head at him and dipped. The whole time mad at myself for sir'ing that assholeface. It's alright, though. I DO have a car. It was around the corner. Guess I got the last laugh.
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  • DJ_NevilleCDJ_NevilleC 1,922 Posts
    I grew up in Georgia where all cops (whether they deserve it or not) get called sir. Got let out of two DWI's back in the day by being respectful so it paid off.

  • Birdman9Birdman9 5,417 Posts
    If you have to say anything at all to a cop, you might as well add 'Sir'. Unless you can't say it straight, then just one word answers. Cops don't like sarcasm.

  • El PrezEl Prez NE Ohio 1,141 Posts
    Hells yes I say sir to em one less reason to go psycho on my black ass...seriously though

  • DB_CooperDB_Cooper Manhatin' 7,823 Posts
    If you have to say anything at all to a cop, you might as well add 'Sir'. Unless you can't say it straight, then just one word answers. Cops don't like sarcasm.

    Sayin'. Disrespecting cops to their faces will not help you get off with a warning.

  • Back in the day - all the time. Especially if I had some weed in my pocket and an open beer in my hand. I looked like a Hells Angel, cop bait all day long...

  • OkemOkem 4,617 Posts
    If you said "yes sir" to a cop/policeman over here, they'd probably think you were (as we say) 'taking the piss'. So no I would never.

    Where did the whole calling people sir and ma'am come from anyway?

  • FatbackFatback 6,746 Posts
    I say Sir and Ma'm to everyone (unless I can't tell their gender).

    It benefits me, first and foremost. So I do it for practical reasons.

    I'm also from Charleston SC and we say stuff like "F*ck you, sir."

  • Jonny_PaycheckJonny_Paycheck 17,825 Posts
    Always say sir and ma'am.

    And Herm, for the younger girls helping you at the mawwll, I think the appropriate term is "miss"?

  • catalistcatalist 1,373 Posts
    I got pulled over one time and the cop kept calling me "dude".

    that was annoying.

    "hey dude, you know you shouldn't have been driving with an open container in your vehicle" , "hey dude, how many drinks have you had tonight?"

    so annoying... for the record I had only had 3 drinks that night , he was just being a dick

  • RockadelicRockadelic Out Digging 13,993 Posts
    You mean all you guys don't say "Eff The Police" when face to face with a Cop?

    I'm shocked.

    http://mobile.newsday.com/inf/infomo?vie...feed:i=47899478



  • SoulhawkSoulhawk 3,197 Posts
    You mean all you guys don't say "Eff The Police" when face to face with a Cop?

    I'm shocked.

    http://mobile.newsday.com/inf/infomo?vie...feed:i=47899478




    "The trooper issued a summons to Smith for disorderly conduct, including obscene language and gestures, police said."

    doing 'rap hands' is a crime?


  • Jonny_PaycheckJonny_Paycheck 17,825 Posts
    Rich - did you ever talk back to a police? Have they ever kicked your ass? Thrown you in jail for no reason? Even written an unearned ticket? Or are you secretly a model citizen behind the aging bad boy persona?



  • doing 'jazz hands'[/b] is a crime?




  • SoulhawkSoulhawk 3,197 Posts
    aging bad boy persona

    potential soulstrut location gold!!!

  • Hotsauce84Hotsauce84 8,450 Posts


    doing 'jazz hands'[/b] is a crime?




    Harvey!

  • RockadelicRockadelic Out Digging 13,993 Posts
    Rich - did you ever talk back to a police? Have they ever kicked your ass? Thrown you in jail for no reason? Even written an unearned ticket? Or are you secretly a model citizen behind the aging bad boy persona?

    This so-called "bad boy persona" must be a stereotype you developed based on a photo.

    I've certainly never presented myself in that light.

    Yes, I've been a wise ass to the Police when I was young, immature and stupid.

    Yes, I was thrown in a jail cell for doing so.

    Yes, I have been written tickets that I probably would not have received if I was respectful.

    I've received MANY tickets although none of them were what I would call "unearned".

    Yes, I currently break some of this country's laws and expect to be punished to the fullest if caught....that will be my fault, no one elses.

    Wanna hear some stories about my experiences with the Police....I'll be happy to share.

  • OkemOkem 4,617 Posts
    "hey dude, you know you shouldn't have been driving with an open container in your vehicle" , "hey dude, how many drinks have you had tonight?"

    so annoying... for the record I had only had 3 drinks that night , he was just being a dick

    That's another American 'thing' I just don't get, it seems to be socially acceptable to drink and drive. Well it does in your movies/tv shows anyway.


    Anyway, back on topic.


    Sir, Ma'an (tips hat)
    Carry on.

  • SoulhawkSoulhawk 3,197 Posts
    Yes, I currently break some of this country's laws and expect to be punished to the fullest if caught....that will be my fault, no one elses.


  • OkemOkem 4,617 Posts
    Wanna hear some stories about my experiences with the Police....I'll be happy to share.

    Only if they involve you being a 'bad boy'.

  • Hotsauce84Hotsauce84 8,450 Posts
    So ALL you guys do this?

    Cop or not, if you're disrespectful to me (and it's undeserved...which in my case is always the case), then eff you, you know?

  • Hotsauce84Hotsauce84 8,450 Posts
    Also, for those that don't know, "never sir a cop" comes from an Iceberg Slim novel (though I can't recall which one).

    I believe it was one of his 'street commandments' or something.

  • Birdman9Birdman9 5,417 Posts
    Also, for those that don't know, "never sir a cop" comes from an Iceberg Slim novel (though I can't recall which one).

    I believe it was one of his 'street commandments' or something.

    Well, for the record, I have also never beat a woman with a folded up wire hanger (which I believe was also one of his rules to live by should your 'bottom bitch' get out of line). I think ol' Iceberg would have to concede that the code of the streets evolves depending on which streets you find yourself on. Common sense prevails. If a cop dissrespects you, that's the breaks. You get nothing but trouble by returning the favor. Might as well minimize your complications and say as little as possible, as politely as possible, if possible.

  • Jonny_PaycheckJonny_Paycheck 17,825 Posts
    Rich - did you ever talk back to a police? Have they ever kicked your ass? Thrown you in jail for no reason? Even written an unearned ticket? Or are you secretly a model citizen behind the aging bad boy persona?

    This so-called "bad boy persona" must be a stereotype you developed based on a photo your posts[/b].

    I've certainly never presented myself in that light.


    Yes, I've been a wise ass

    Yes, I was thrown in a jail cell

    Yes, I have been written tickets that I probably would not have received if I was respectful.

    Yes, I currently break some of this country's laws and expect to be punished to the fullest if caught....that will be my fault, no one elses.

    Wanna hear some stories about my experiences with the Police....I'll be happy to share.[/b]

    Maybe I should've said "aging bad-ass". I mean that with some measure of respect.

  • The_Hook_UpThe_Hook_Up 8,182 Posts
    Might as well minimize your complications and say as little as possible, as politely as possible, if possible.



    a dickhead cop can really F*ck up your weekend, really no need in provoking a meathead.

    That said, they can do what they want to you regardless of how polite you are, but putting a cop in their place will almost always guarantee a trip downtown. The main jail here in Memphis, 201, is a nightmare...overcrowded, drunk tank is also the rape tank, assault tank...there is little to no segregation according to offense. There is a chance of gen pop prison shit happening to you at 201

    So I am polite as a muhfugger when approached by a cop

  • RockadelicRockadelic Out Digging 13,993 Posts
    Wanna hear some stories about my experiences with the Police....I'll be happy to share.

    Only if they involve you being a 'bad boy'.

    Hardly....but since I already wrote it.....
    I call this one???.???The Freudian Slip From Hell???

    It was an evening in the early 90???s and my partner and I were packaging up boxes of LP???s to send to Germany. We ran out of Packing Tape and the local Office Depot was going to close in 10 minutes so I jumped in my car and headed to the store. As I walked up to the front door it was being locked and they would not let me in. So I went to my car. Pulled out of the Parking Lot and while stopped at a red light was thinking about where else I could go to get tape.

    Two lanes over from me waiting at the same light was a cop. As the light changed and I moved forward I could see in my rear view mirror that the cop was pulling behind me with his lights on. I immediately turned into another Parking Lot and stopped with him behind me. The cop was a very large black man and he immediately ordered me out of the car and had me put my hands on my car as he frisked me. His first question was ???have you ever been to Prison??? to which I answered ???NO????????????Never???? he said as if he couldn???t believe it. Then he asked if I had anything in my car that I shouldn???t have. I kinda laughed and told him he could search the car. Then he said something that really pissed me off??????What are you doing out at this time of night???? Now I???m a grown ass man and it???s 9:05PM???..so I said ???Look, I live right down the street and I was just going out to get a Pack of Roll???..Uh, ummm??? I mean a Roll of Packing Tape???

    ???A pack of rolling what??? he replied???.As he began to search my car I did my best to explain my Freudian slip of which he wasn???t believing at all. Dude tore my car apart. At this point I ask him ???Excuse me, why did you pull me over in the first place??? to which he answered ???Because you didn???t have your turning signal on for at least 50 feet before you turned into this Parking Lot??????.I was pissed???I only turned into the parking lot because he was behind me with his lights on and there wasn???t 50 feet between the turn and the parking lot. So I realized the stop was BS and the dude didn???t find anything in my car. He wrote me a ticket for not having my Insurance Card and let me go on my way.

    I went home where my wife and partner had a good laugh at my expense. The next day I was still pissed so I decided to call the Police Station and complain. I got a Sargeant and explained my experience. His response was ???What kind of car were you driving???? I told him a 280Z??????.???What do you look like, do you have facial hair??????.Um, yeah I have a goatee???..???Do you have long hair??????????.yeah, I guess you could say that???. ???THAT???S why you were pulled over, you fit the Profile??????.he went on to explain that they train their officers to look for certain types of people and my description fit one of those Profiles by the book???..he told me next time I get pulled over just have the officer call him and he???ll take care of things. For the next few months I TRIED to get pulled over without actually breaking the law but to no avail.

    About 8 months later I was at the local gym playing ball and I recognized the Cop that had stopped me. After a couple of games I asked him if he remembered me from that night and he said he did. I told him I thought it sucked that he had ???profiled??? me and he said?????????You???d be amazed at how many folks I put away that look just like you???. Then he apologized and said he was just doing his job. Seemed like a decent guy and we played ball from time to time after that.

    A few months later I was driving to work and heard a radio ad about a Class Action lawsuit against the state of Texas for profiling drivers. I wrote down the number and figured I could get in on some of this lawsuit money, after all they had ADMITTED to me that they profiled me. I called the number and got an office in NYC. I started to explain my experience and the woman at the other end said???.???That???s EXACTLY the kind of stuff we???re looking for???. Then she said??????What race are you???? I told her I was white and she said. ???Sir, I???m afraid you don???t qualify for the lawsuit, it???s called DWB(Driving While Black). Can???t win for losing.

  • I got pulled over one time and as soon as the cop made it to my driver's window i stuck my head out and said: Sir is so and so working and he said how do you know him? I told him we grew up together, he told me slow down and carry on.


  • Lucious_FoxLucious_Fox 2,479 Posts
    Only SIR to an "older" cop.

    A young 20 somethin' cop needs to Sir me at my age.

  • DelayDelay 4,530 Posts
    I 'Sired" a cop friday night. I was in DC driving home in my father's car with a young lady that started freaking out when we got pulled over. Apparently she had something in her bag she shouldnt have. i just told her to calm down and let me handle it. guy came up to the window, hand on his sidearm, and pointed his flashlight all up in my face. i just smiled, answered all of his questions politely and honestly, and he let me go with a warning. good thing for me it wasnt the end of the month.

  • bassiebassie 11,710 Posts
    Cops and I don't really cross paths; the people who hold my fate in their hands are the border/customs officers and as much as I tell myself to say sir/ma'am and act pleasant for less trouble, it all goes out the window as soon as we come face to face. I couldn't even do it when I got detained...the word just won't come out my mouth. I just try to make eye contact and say as little as possible. I've said sir less than 10 times in my life and it's never been for an authority figure. I imagine I'll regret it one of these days.

  • djdazedjdaze 3,099 Posts
    I've had some funny ass run-ins with cops at the porn houses.

    Vice squad used to show up on complaints of pornography being filmed there.

    Usually ended with a couple girls giving the cops a show from the other side of the fence and them leaving laughing and shaking our hands
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