Ebay Drama or Why Must I Cry

kicks79

So as i mentioned in an earlier post. This douche never paid for his item, Sent me a sob story about having to buy christmas presents for his kids. I told him to paypal me the cost of my listings and i would forget about it. Seven days later no reply and so i opened a dispute with ebay. I then get a message back about how he will pay for the item now and how i didn't need to open a dispute. He is also disputing the cost of shipping which i had to put up to due extra costs by australia post.Should i send him the item ? Im worried he might try and gank me. Its not like i really trust the guy now. vs vs

holmes

stick to your guns with the dispute & relist?