who gets hit on?
keithvanhorn
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this doesn't happen to me very often, like very, very rarely (ha!), and i'd never cheat on my girl....but this weekend i was djing a party and some decent looking college chick was trying to ask me something all night but the music was too loud and i figured she just wanted to request britney so i ignored her. finally she came over and got right in my face and said "do you want to f*ck??". 
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Gay guys.
happens at least once a week.
Ha. I used to work at a video store in a gay-friendly neighborhood and definitely got hit on by 10 gay guys for every 1 gal.
I also had a very drunk sororiety-type girl at a new year's party proposition me while also requesting a song by Bmore electronic musician Cex (which would not have fit w/ my set at all). Luckily, Cex was not only at the party but about 10 feet away from the tables so I was able to point him out and send her chasing after him.
i think someone should make a nice wedding band that says "im single but looking" around the band and maybe ladies will flock. i dont know but getting married brings the prettiest girls around you that just want to flirt.
oh, and i'll never forget about the lil fucken midget dude that felt me up at milk in sf.
Also, middle aged women have always been flirty with me, more than women of my own age. I'd go and visit my Mum at work, and later she'd tell me about, how one of her colleges was saying I was cute, and if she was a few years younger..
Another time, when I was trying to get with this girl, I called in at her house, her Mum answered but she wasn't in, so I chatted to her Mum for a bit, being all charming and shit.
The next day, on the way to college, I'm chatting to this girl, and she's telling me how her Mum was saying how great I was, and she should go out with me, and if she didn't, her Mum would.
Now if this was a Bambouche story, it would end with me telling you how I went back round there, and she made me her little sex slave, or some shit, but no.
i'm pretty in control of my libido, and scrippers are usually crazy, so it's rare i'll bite.
what is with this? It's not like girls are all on my jock now that I'm married, but there were a number of female friends and associates who, once I was officially off the market, started being a lot more flirty and shit. giving me pecks on the cheek all of a sudden. what, you didn't like me enough back then to give me rhythm but now that I'm all safe and sexually non-threatening you're gonna be all sweet? I guess for women, flirting is an end in itself.
Any of the ladies care to weigh in on this?
not for nothen but im like this. i mean, if/when i have a girlfriend, i get more flirty cuz its safe. and after working myself up into a blue balled frenzy, i have someplace to go work it out. nothing wrong with flirting!
It hurts in a wierd way... but im tired of Frickin' drunk girls... or Frickin' girls who would be willing to fuck a drunk me.
It's so true that wedding rings attract women. Here are a few representative episodes:
1. SIOP Conference Hotel, Chicago 2004.
-I went down to the bar area around 9 or 10PM to get my drink on. I'm sitting at the bar on the dolo, and this fiiiiiiiiiine, chocolate sistah strolls over. She says and I quote, "You're one beautiful Black man. I just wanted to come over and tell you that." To this I responded, "While I'm flattered, I am happily married." Her reply, "I know." We had a little small talk and they she walked away.
2. My old university, circa 2005.
-I was having lunch with my crew (these brothas who work in undergraduate advising) and one of their buddies, this female (quite the cutie), comes over. We're talking about jazz and stuff and then she states, "Hey, maybe we could go see a show sometime. I don't drive but I could go with you." My reply was, "Woah, it doesn't matter to me whether you drive or not, because I'm married and not taking you to any show." She apologized indicating that she wasn't aware I was married, which
3. Primo's Deli, circa 1998.
-This episode occurred before I got married. This waitress (an a'ight, almost middle-age White chick; I didn't discriminate) I would see in the deli on the regular said to me, "I think you're so sexy. I find you very attractive." She was throwin' some serious rhythm and she hinted around to me about wanting the salami (pun intended). I didn't get down because I was gettin' very serious with T**i at this point. In a different life, who knows?
4. U of Akron bookstore, circa 1999.
-There was a babe (again a good-lookin', close to middle-age White babe with a nice fattie) who worked at the Akron U. bookstore. We'd exchange pleasantries, and over time, she started to flirt with me. She would grab on me, hug me, and stuff like that. Me, I'd grab on the bookie and stuff on occasion. I never got down 'cause this dude who liked her cock-blocked. He saw me and T**i together at the grocery store and told ole' girl I was engaged. This wasn't true, however.
There have been a load of these episodes over the years, especially at academic institutions/events. For example, I had a former advisor and undergraduate student (while I was a teaching assistant; she was fine too, but I have principles) try to holla!. This older babe (she was fine, too) offered to rent me the upstairs of her crib with benefits
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
Actually one time I got hit on by this hipster chick who was rocking an eye patch. Started a conversation all about the eye surgery she had just gotten and how it wasn't an ironic fashion statement. My boy was telling me I should hit it just so I could say I smashed a cyclpos. It wasn't to be though, eyepatch or not this chick was straight busted. Took me a while to shake her off, but I think she got the message when some girl walked up to the bar and I said, "Finally a girl who I can look in the eyesssss."
These have always been big for me. Girls always try to bust your shit up. Sometimes I use it to my advantage though.
- spidey
I've had more than one woman tell me that if they go to a club and see a single guy without a woman they assume he may be a desperate weirdo/geek/undesirable man....but if they are with a woman then chances are they aren't desperate and are therefore more attractive.
And if they are with a hot woman they REALLY must have it going on and are even more attractive.
That's why the best way to pick up women at the club is to go with a hot looking female friend or sister!!
Oh boy does this ever speak the truth! Being with FINE chicks all the time and never ever SWEATING or JOCKING any of them will get you ALL of the ASS you have ever DESIRED.
Classy.
Do your sheets look like a ghost puked all over them too?
When I play a gig and I'm playing guitar it's really ridiculous how much I get sweated over after shows. I don't know it's something about ladys loving musicians. Especially when you play drums. Ladys love drummers.
- spidey
man my pops could tell you stories about this shit when he was on tour in the 70's, but i been a pretty good drummer for a while(a couple jazz awards in high school and a fatty scholarship for drums, no bragging intended) and i have never in my life gotten a girl to bed strictly for playing a gig. i musta been doing something wrong.
THIS IS THE REAL.
Even it wasnt phrased well, Pheramones are a big part of the game.
TRUE. But if the girl is smelling Vagina on the boy wouldn't that make her attracted to the female????
Edit: I guess she is not nessicarily a lesbian, apologies to bi-sexuals.
and it's even people off of soulstrut!
Dude, you have to stop hanging out in Leidseplein!!!!!