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I Met this girl randomly

kennykenny 1,024 Posts
edited November 2007 in Strut Central
we barely know each other, we chatted for 5 hrs about hip-hop, what she do for a living, her family and other things. We drank beer, we laughed and we went for dessert.After dessert I only thanked her for her company and let it went by. I spent the rest of the weekend regretting that...Am I an idiot ?
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  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    um

    yeah

    i mean, shit - how often does this kind of shit happen to you?
  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts
    not often.
  • pjl2000xlpjl2000xl 1,795 Posts
  • CousinLarryCousinLarry 4,618 Posts
    wait, you didn't even get her number?
  • bassiebassie 11,710 Posts
    I spent the rest of the weekend regretting that...

    ...you didn't get her number/contact info? This seems like the only thing to really regret, unless she sent out very clear messages that she wanted to bed you.
  • TabaskoTabasko 1,357 Posts
    dude, work on your end game.
  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    not often.

    that's what i'm thinking man. you got any way of getting in touch with her again?
  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts
    i got her contact, but she's 800 miles away now.

    she was here for 5 days and we met the day before she took off.

    plus she's got man back home.



  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    ah don't sweat that man - it's always the last day that things like that happen but shti works itself out, regardless of 800 or even 8000 miles. carry on shooting the shit over whatever contact means you have (i mean phone, email or whatever) and see where it goes. maybe nowhere, maybe a great friendship and a place to crash if you're in that area, at least
  • inVrsinVrs 687 Posts
    i got her contact, but she's 800 miles away now.

    she was here for 5 days and we met the day before she took off.

    plus she's got man back home.




  • CousinLarryCousinLarry 4,618 Posts
    i got her contact, but she's 800 miles away now.

    she was here for 5 days and we met the day before she took off.

    plus she's got man back home.



    If all you missed was a one night stand don't get too bent out of shape.
  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    If all you missed was a one night stand don't get too bent out of shape.

  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts

    i didn't want to signal anything, knowing she's got a man and all.

    i guess i was wrong.

    fuck it, anyway...better luck next time.
  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts
    If all you missed was a one night stand don't get too bent out of shape.


    good point.

    but, i wasn't looking for that.

    it was too good of a night just for that.
  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    so this "she has a man" is just a short time gig - not like she's married or whatever?
  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts

    nope not married.
  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    ah ok, i kind of took the original post as she was unattainable

    not sure why
  • bass_feverbass_fever 974 Posts
    Greeting,
    build repore,
    qualify,
    CLOSE THE DEAL!!!

    It's pretty simple!
  • soulmarcosasoulmarcosa 4,296 Posts
    Greeting,
    spell rapport correctly,
    qualify,
    CLOSE THE DEAL!!!
  • bassiebassie 11,710 Posts

    i guess i was wrong.

    No, you did what felt right for you and the circumstance. Sounds like you have things in common and like speaking with each other - unless you are only interested in getting her into bed - it sounds like you can still have some sort of friendship.
  • Birdman9Birdman9 5,417 Posts

    i guess i was wrong.

    No, you did what felt right for you and the circumstance. Sounds like you have things in common and like speaking with each other - unless you are only interested in getting her into bed - it sounds like you can still have some sort of friendship.

    Plant the seed that someday may grow into a mighty oak, one never knows the future.

    and enjoy a nice memory, nothing wrong with that.
  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    Greeting,
    spell rappaport correctly,
    qualify,
    CLOSE THE DEAL!!!



    i'm just not sure that's gonna help in this situation
  • kennykenny 1,024 Posts
    thanks everyone for the words.

    i think i'll just keep it as a good memory.

    friendship with someone you had feelings with is hard to keep, not to mention long distance.

    perhaps once in a while a small catch-up email, but otherwise, i think i should move on.
  • waximilienwaximilien 352 Posts
    that's probably for the best man, although a retained friendship could always become something else later down the line when circumstances change
  • CBearCBear 902 Posts
    Where's the back-burner graemlin?

    Sometimes, I feel if you throw caution to the wind, it makes even better when you randomly run into her again in some other part of the world.
  • dayday 9,611 Posts

    i guess i was wrong.

    No, you did what felt right for you and the circumstance. Sounds like you have things in common and like speaking with each other - unless you are only interested in getting her into bed - it sounds like you can still have some sort of friendship.

    Plant the seed that someday may grow into a mighty oak, one never knows the future.

    and enjoy a nice memory, nothing wrong with that.

    Best advice in this whole thread.
  • GaryGary 3,982 Posts
    You shoulda banged her. and yelled out biggie lyrics the whole time.
  • FlomotionFlomotion 2,391 Posts
    You shoulda banged her. and yelled out biggie lyrics the whole time.




    You just made me shoot coffee through my nose.
  • keithvanhornkeithvanhorn 3,855 Posts
    we barely know each other, we chatted for 5 hrs about hip-hop, what she do for a living, her family and other things. We drank beer, we laughed and we went for dessert.

    After dessert I only thanked her for her company and let it went by. I spent the rest of the weekend regretting that...

    Am I an idiot ?

    chatting about hip hop for 5 hours? i'd need a nap or 2.
  • soulmarcosasoulmarcosa 4,296 Posts
    Plant the seed that someday may grow into a mighty oak

    Whoa I don't think Kenny's looking to be an unwed father but then again I don't know the dude
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