For some reason if this ever happend to me I would prefer this, over her leaving me for another dude.
I always kind thought I would feel this way too, but I suppose you never really know until it happens to you. And either way you wind up feeling shitty, so maybe it doesn't really make a difference after all.
she was seeing a girl from her modern dance troop on the low while we lived together. she made living with her totally unbareable on purpose so i would ask her to move out (so yes in a way I kicked HER out). better for her too since she's guilt free. i just learned all of this within the last hour
This actually happened to me as well. My only consolation was that she wasn't rejecting me, per se, but all of us. By whom I mean people with penises. My condolonces, dude. I really couldn't believe it myself, and despite the "consolation," it hurt just as bad as any other break-up.
she was seeing a girl from her modern dance troop on the low while we lived together. she made living with her totally unbareable on purpose so i would ask her to move out (so yes in a way I kicked HER out). better for her too since she's guilt free. i just learned all of this within the last hour
In this day in age, how is this really a shock? Especially in the city. 2007
Well, I'm assuming just getting dumped is shock enough.
DAMN, was the girl bi-sexual?? I had my time with the BI chicks & it's all drama when one leaves you for they g/f. Realistically women are more drama prone & catty...shit they can't make they mind up who they want to be with. Man or Woman
For some reason if this ever happend to me I would prefer this, over her leaving me for another dude.
I can understand this logic. I mean, it seems like it would make it easier to deal with; it really sounds like it wasn't you.
And T, hold your head. I know it's hard to maintain this perspective right now, but breakups are always for the best. You strike me as someone who will definitely enjoy single life for a while.
this fucking girl!!! i stayed with her through so much bullshit. she straight smacked me infront of a room full of people at my own gig, got removed by security, then has the nerve to tell me. "I was scared of you." I never layed a finger on her like that. whatever make you feel better, baby.
It feels a lot better knowing the truth and hating her, than it does missing her and wondering why it didnt work.
I'm no angel. definitely did my share of dirt, and karma's a real bitch (no pun intended). 3 1/2 years down the toilet.
*cue* OC - "Gahead"
don't discount the life lessons you learned in this time. That shit is invaluable
Don't worry dude, you'll bounce back, and this time you'll be that much more wiser to the situations that may come up.
Don't lose yourself in the disappointment either, keep your mind looking towards the positive.
word, besides, once you get everything worked out, and you find the next girl, you get to have the "super fun sex with a new girl, maybe girlfriend, but maybe not" phase.........
3 and half years is a real triumph in my books, I feel your pain, lots of us know tha feeling, and I had a way easier time knowing that it wasn't another guy too, that's way worse, someone else's dick? c'mon....
"other fish in the sea" I think there's lots of FINE females that would be willing to give you a try when you're ready!
yeah, one of my ex girls punched me in the stomach at the mall once. we broke up days later, but i wish i had just jetted on her right there in front of lane bryant.
yeah, one of my ex girls punched me in the stomach at the mall once. we broke up days later, but i wish i had just jetted on her right there in front of lane bryant.
If it was IN Lane Bryant's she may have kicked your ass.
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He said that when he first met her he told her...."Once you sleep with me you'll never want to be with another man"
He was right.
I thought you left her?
For some reason if this ever happend to me I would prefer this, over her leaving me for another dude.
I won't even contribute to the soon-tob-five-pager about girls leaving guys for girls.
it just sucks when you get left (for anyone).
I always kind thought I would feel this way too, but I suppose you never really know until it happens to you. And either way you wind up feeling shitty, so maybe it doesn't really make a difference after all.
Sorry to hear it, Tom....
Either way, sorry to hear it bro.
Now imma open the pandora box....
In this day in age, how is this really a shock? Especially in the city. 2007
Well, I'm assuming just getting dumped is shock enough.
sorry homey...i don't know what else to say.
No doubt.
This actually happened to me as well. My only consolation was that she wasn't rejecting me, per se, but all of us. By whom I mean people with penises. My condolonces, dude. I really couldn't believe it myself, and despite the "consolation," it hurt just as bad as any other break-up.
Now that's just fucked up. Cowardly.
DAMN, was the girl bi-sexual??
I had my time with the BI chicks & it's all drama when one leaves you for they g/f.
Realistically women are more drama prone & catty...shit they can't make they mind up who they want to be with. Man or Woman
I'm sorry it happened at all. Male/Female, whoever...splitting up the APT is not fun.
Stay up.
and, have a drink...
*cue* OC - "Gahead"
Here we go
Even worse!
don't discount the life lessons you learned in this time. That shit is invaluable
Don't worry dude, you'll bounce back, and this time you'll be that much more wiser to the situations that may come up.
Don't lose yourself in the disappointment either, keep your mind looking towards the positive.
I can understand this logic. I mean, it seems like it would make it easier to deal with; it really sounds like it wasn't you.
And T, hold your head. I know it's hard to maintain this perspective right now, but breakups are always for the best. You strike me as someone who will definitely enjoy single life for a while.
I never layed a finger on her like that. whatever make you feel better, baby.
It feels a lot better knowing the truth and hating her, than it does missing her and wondering why it didnt work.
"Most women don't know what they want, they just know they don't have it"
And from my hillbilly buddy who's wife left him for a woman...
"Women, can't live with them, can't kill them and get away with it"
word, besides, once you get everything worked out, and you find the next girl, you get to have the "super fun sex with a new girl, maybe girlfriend, but maybe not" phase.........
3 and half years is a real triumph in my books, I feel your pain, lots of us know tha feeling, and I had a way easier time knowing that it wasn't another guy too, that's way worse, someone else's dick? c'mon....
"other fish in the sea" I think there's lots of FINE females that would be willing to give you a try when you're ready!
Because she was a mermaid?
ha, I meant it in the most traditional slim kid tre way holmes!
If it was IN Lane Bryant's she may have kicked your ass.