YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S GIRLFRIEND (NRR)
soulmarcosa
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Sorry if posting this is NAGL but fuck it. As some of you who know me are aware, I just came out of a 16-year relationship (11 of them married) and am now separated and starting to date after over a decade-and-a-half hiatus. Well after some 1-date experiences with a few girls (some good, some ehhh), I made it to date #4 with a cute 25-year old, and we'll probably see each other for awhile more. Nothing serious, just good times so far. But here's the rub: after the first time she stayed over, she ended up sleeping with some other chick the next night. No problem - she told me beforehand, I joked with her about it afterwards, and besides we'd just started going out so I had no business being jealous about someone else in her life, male or female. Still, what a way to get introduced to the dating scene in the '007. Anyway, I'm hoping we'll continue to see each other. But if things end up getting serious, I'm not down with her getting with other chicks on a regular basis, just as I wouldn't want her to have another boyfriend on the side. And of course that goes for me too - I'm not trying to have an "open relationship" if you get what I'm saying.So strutters, I'm actually not asking for advice 'cos I'm sure she & I will discuss the state of things soon enough. And I'm not looking for "THREESOME, DUDE!!!" hi-fiving encouragement. But for commiseration's sake, I'm just curious to hear stories from all ya'll who've been in a similar situation dealing with their girlfriend's girlfriend(s). HELP AN OLD MAN RELATE 
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Ha... yeah...
Aye Young Dro
you know these niggaz hate that shit tho {My girl got a girlfriend}
these niggaz can't barely get one bitch man
they see me with 3 or 4 man {who the fuck this nigga think he is}
they wanna kill theyself man {is that my bitch with his bitch}
Pimp Squad Click man
they don't say that shit for nothing man
[Chorus]
my girl got a girlfriend
see 'em in a pearl benz
passin' by ya
sittin' higher
flya then what yurrs is
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
my girl got a girlfriend
that make you wanna
we be ballin
you be callin
why you over there then
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
[T.I.]
I'm so fly
A few of my lady friends
Is super bi~Sexuals
and usually high
might even give you a try
you ain't in the no
you never know
whether they do or not
they ain't gay
they just like to play
a little screw or not
especially when they
bad as ever
rarely got them booty shots
see up in Body Tap
on the stage
they strippin now
make it rain
smackin' bitches asses
till they booty drop
I train bitch
to show all you lame bitches
you ain't hot
fake niggaz
aint with her
bitch got shit you ain't got
like better watches
better brawds
and all the you cars
you ain't coped
exclusive S Classics
standin' tall in the parking lot
saw her pull out with seven freaks
is that what you so salty 'bout?
[Chorus]
my girl got a girlfriend
see 'em in a pearl benz
passin' by ya
sittin' higher
flya then what yurrs is
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
my girl got a girlfriend
that make you wanna
we be ballin
you be callin
why you over there then
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
[Young Dro]
Y'all niggaz Salty
Hessian hoes want me
yesaday I was the freshes nigga in the country
bad hoes hunt me
they follow me on Sunday
the rape me on Monday
and they blow the cush in front of me
Tuesday
I have them eatin pussy rightin front of me
Wensday
we ?
broke that nigga
after that we bought a Hummer G
Thursday
we took it home
Friday
we get some mo
got a grand
get some blow
buy the daum liquor store
drink untill we drunk
then in the morning
then we hit the jewelry store
yellow fits
yellow wrists
yellow chicks
yelow cris
bitch you gotta yield
you don't see this daum yellow whip
yellow gun
yellow clip
fruity gat shoot it back
crome band
bitch niggaz
what you doing with that
take 'em back
make 'em pop a bunch of pills
make a bitch eat it
tryin to show that hoe how fun it is
[Chorus]
my girl got a girlfriend
see 'em in a pearl benz
passin' by ya
sittin' higher
flya then what yurrs is
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
my girl got a girlfriend
that make you wanna
we be ballin
you be callin
why you over there then
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
[T.I.]
you might see her on motor skates
broke ass nigga 'pose to hate
who the fuck she think she is
all a nigga know to say
she passin' by 'em blowin hey
leanin' on a shoulder blade
'Shoulder Leanin' as Dro would say
she blowin on it all day
superfreaks and bueaty queens
she like to see them do they thang
as soon as they get to the seen
they shinin as hard as you done seen
the badest bitches you ever seen
her earring give off a blueish gleem
rollin on a couple things
may be down for other things
[Young Dro]
she might be down for the thing
but TIP it might just be my ring
and how I got this other bitch
she lickin on my dig-o-ling
I broke her slow
and strocked it slow
lick it watch it grow some mo
bust a nut
bust a nut
and watch me fuck that hoe some more
she said
'Dro can you go some mo?'
fuck yes
im the best
aint playin around
my pimpin on deck
lick a bitch low
now the bitch all wet
ridin throught the city on
deep crome sets
wrist so fresh
she so fresh
{my girl got a girlfriend}
Man I can deal with that
[Chorus]
my girl got a girlfriend
see 'em in a pearl benz
passin' by ya
sittin' higher
flya then what yurrs is
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
my girl got a girlfriend
that make you wanna
we be ballin
you be callin
why you over there then
my girl got a girlfriend
and we be bringin girls in
you don't want my dick up in her
keep her 'way from hurr then
My girl got a
My girl got a
My girl
My girl got a girl
MY girl got a girl
My girl got a girl
My girl got a grilfriend
My girl got a
My girl got a girlfriend
My girl got a girlfriend
my girl got a girlfriend
My girl got a girlfriend
I know where you are coming from...although my better half doesnt have a girlfriend, she has in the past. Of course this was before we were dating, so it isnt any of my business...but it does sit in the back of your head. When I meet an old freind of hers, I do think..."I wonder if this is one of them". But the biggest issue (we have talked at length about it) for me is, what if she wakes up one day and decides "I wanna be with a girl instead"...I mean, I could be the most perfectest boyfriend in the whole world, but I cant do anything about something like that. Before this issue occured in my life, I would have been a "THREESOME DUDE" idiot...but when you realize it would hurt you like her being with another dude, you forget about that shit really quick.
i can barely conceptualize this.
I know! This dude must be old.
dude, not that I in particular have much to contribute to this particular thread, but there are grownups talking here.
nice 1st post though lol.
marco: sorry to hear about your split bro, hope you kept the cat.. (the feline, not the P for all yall w/ dirt on the brain.)
elise alias!
You sound single.
DEAL.
Girl-With-A-Girlfriend isn't coming, but I'm already making plans for us to be sharing those pitchers with a few girls without girlfriends. Or boyfriends.
you guys are like the hip hop tweedle dee and tweedle dum
do you mean any woman who feels that way must not be a lady?
i know lotsa ladies, including myself, who wouldn't give a rat's ass if a potential boyfriend had a past of experimenting with other dudes. playing the field is a little more tricky...
That's dating in SF for you.
DJArcadian = rebound girl
HUGE co-sign.
Which one of these terms does not belong? Not sure if orientation is the same as promiscuity.
Me neither, but, jus saying....
i really wish i had something more to contribute, but that amazes me. anything i could say would just be completely sophomoric b/c you're clearly on the next level relationship-wise. other than that, i say rock the honesty as much as possible. definitely a new concept for me, but it pays off in the long run.
good luck
Been there. This ex was never able to have a serious conversation about what she actually wanted out of me/life. Sex was *incandescent*, though. Ultimately she dumped me after a year and I moved on very rapidly/actually before she'd actually dumped me (I could see it coming).
Like [insert rapper here], it was no Biggie...
You asked for no advice, so I won't offer.
shig! you promised you'd never tell...and it was my hair i was trying to get you to touch
well, in the reality of things we tend to date people who have already been with, dated, experimented...etc...I guess I'm with Arcadian in that in SF...it comes with the territory (I ended up dating a girl who was in a committed lesbian relationship....she of course didn't inform me of this till after we;d had sex a couple of times...haha)...I guess I don't get jealous of the whole girl girl play thing...should I be? I mean...THREESOME DUDE
if it's something you can't handle though...best thing to do is talk about it...open-communication and honesty is a good thing...regardless of the relationship...and you can find out where she stands on it...I've known a lot of bisexual girls who say they date men...they just use women for sex...I'm not saying that makes it okay...but, understand there could be no emotional attatchment to it...just experimentation...or she thinks it's hot/fun to do...
P.S. Belson! I might be coming to L.A. for a pitcher or two soon...I'm starting to book dates for my album release tour....(I'll be in touch soon!