Don't you dare F with Richard Marx
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http://www.salon.com/2013/01/19/richard_marx_hates_my_guts/
Long article but great read. Here's the best of it:
Long article but great read. Here's the best of it:
Less than 24 hours after my article appeared, Marx ??? who had flown to Los Angeles that day ??? sent me a long email in which he attacked my looks, my marital status, my lack of professional achievement, my hypocrisy and my factual accuracy. He informed me that my arrogance is in league with Adolf Hitler???s and Joseph Stalin???s. (To be fair, I???d done some of the same to him, although I didn???t compare him to Hitler, Stalin or any other 20th-century dictator.)
He insisted I publish this letter in its entirety. I am doing so here, both because he dared me (???let???s see if you have the guts???), and because I want to give readers a glimpse inside the mind of a sensitive love balladeer. I???ve annotated the letter where a passage needs explaining, or where I feel like taking another dig at Marx. After all, as he points out, the only thing I???ve got over him is my own blog.
McClelland,
I???m still laughing at your tweet today suggesting I ???let this go??? when it was you, eight months after I had done just that???.face to face???., who chose to print another public attack on my character, and in an extra douch-ey move, include my private e-mails to you. We???ll see if you have the guts to reprint this e-mail, unedited.
First, let???s cover the inaccuracies of your ???piece??? today.
First, your editor, who???s not named but whose identity I can easily find, is a liar. I???ve never tipped less than 20% in my adult life, and you???re more than invited to call any establishments you think I may patronize to check it out. Also, anytime you???d like to compare annual charity contributions, say when. (Oh,..and I???m also taller than my wife, but despite being 5??? 10??? I get pegged as much shorter all the time, perhaps due to a somewhat scrawny physique and alarmingly oversized head???but I digress.)
[I read this paragraph to the editor of my blog, who reiterated that not only is Marx a bad tipper, he???s what waitstaff call a ???runner??? ??? a demanding diner who constantly asks his server to run back to the kitchen for a new fork, a basket of rolls, etc. However, this photo of the Marxes with President Clinton indicates that Marx ??? or at least his hair ??? is taller than his wife.]
Second, to assume you can crawl inside my head and know what my motivation is for writing a song is arrogance reserved for the likes of Hitler and Stalin. Opinion based on fact is respectable journalism. Opinion based on information you have no possibility of knowing is intentionally ignorant and shouldn???t be permitted to stand.
Third, my Christmas album was and is available everywhere, not just Target. iTunes, Amazon, Best Buy, trunk of my car, wherever. A nine second Google search would???ve told you that. And if you (and ???Mike, the Plumber???) think making a Christmas album and wanting it to sell is shameless, you???re not only a blithering idiot, but a total hypocrite. I checked on Amazon and lo and behold, your Obama book is available there. So I???m a ???sellout??? for selling a Christmas album but you selling a book is, what????a ???calling???? A ???service???? Did you donate all the royalties? I call bullshit.
[The Richard Marx Store at Richard Marx???s website, richardmarx.com, has a link to target.com, which advertises a special edition of Christmas Spirit with four bonus tracks, available ???Only at Target.???]
Lastly, your statement ???Richard Marx is married to a model??? is not only inaccurate, but insulting to my wife of twenty-four years. Cynthia is a former professional dancer, and actress who has co-starred in more than one iconic film. More importantly, she???s a mother who raised three children and who does more volunteering for charity every single year than anyone I know. The demeaning tone of your statement is worthy of an ass-kicking unto itself.
[Marx is married to the former Cynthia Rhodes, who played Penny in Dirty Dancing.]
You are correct, despite your childish description of my appearance, that I have not had plastic surgery. You can check behind my ears for scars. Interestingly, while I think you???re a few years younger than me, you appear considerably older. While as insecure as the next person, I???ll choose my view in the mirror over yours any day of the week. But not just for what???s on the outside.
We all know guys just like you. You posture all day long about what a ???rebel??? you are or how ???angry??? you were to the pathetic point of protesting far too much. The truth is more likely that you spent more time in high school locked inside your own locker than in a classroom. And it shaped exactly who you are today.
The big question is why I give a shit about people like you or the things you write. Even my wife and some friends ask me why I don???t just let certain things go. I???m fully aware of what???s in my win column. Amazing human being for a wife; kind and healthy kids; more than one fiercely loyal friend; and a career that, after twenty-five years, still sees me hearing my songs on the radio, writing new songs with an array of diverse artists, and touring all over the world. So why do I let these certain attacks get to me?
Here???s my explanation. The internet, Twitter and blogs particularly, are a Utopian breeding ground for cowards. A place for small, frustrated people to spew vile, bitter shit without fearing true retribution. But don???t forget???Twitter, as well as your little blog, is a public forum. And in a world drowning a little more each day in apathy, I choose to occasionally call out the cowards, if only to briefly shine a big, bright light on their little yellow streak. Today, you became the poster-boy for Chickenshit-itis.
And for you, as well as anyone else who thinks this is as simple as me being ???thin-skinned,??? let me make a clear distinction, again???and for the last time: Mock or belittle my music all day long? Go for it. You???re entitled to your opinion. But disparage or call into question my character, and I???ll demand you answer for it. That???s what I think anyone with any self respect is obliged to do.
I???m fully aware of my lack of celebrity. You think that???s an insult? (Although what does it say about you that you would dedicate an entire blog about???.ME?) I wasn???t EVER really a celebrity. But a bunch of my songs are. And going back to your ignorant and clueless statement about me trying to write songs strictly for commerce, I???ve only ever written songs that I liked, and hoped other people would like as well, and a couple of my biggest hits were written specifically for my wife, with no initial intention to record them. But I absolutely love that they became hugely popular songs all over the world that people dedicated to loved ones, sang at graduations, funerals, weddings. And I???m even more grateful to have had someone in my life to write those songs for, and about.
By your own admission, this is among the many things you are without.
But you???ve got your blog. Congrats to you.
Marx
Comments
Call me crazy though, but I kinda side with Marx on this. Whats wrong with a dude snapping back if you dis him in public? Even though he comes off nutty, he at least has the balls to stick his neck out there.
The blogger dude is clearly milking this for promotion.
[x] MARX