is it gay? (is it gay related)
picoandsepulveda
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when i am in a public restroom and i am at the sink washing my hands and there is a dude using urinal situated next to the sink is it gay if he is looking over at me washing my hands while he is standing at the urinal with dick in hand? why are you staring at me when you clearly have your dick in your hand? seems gay to me. is it gay?
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"oh dude! You love pussy? Why didn't you say so. Go ahead and stare at me while you pee. I was worried it was a gay thing. I almost posted on a message board about you. Later bro."
Hey PicoandSepulveda,
I guess my question is "what difference does it make?" As long as you know who YOU are, it doesn't matter whether or even why the guy was looking at you. Plus, there are a million potential reasons why he might have been looking at you (e.g. maybe he liked the shirt you were wearing; he might've thought he knew you, etc.), so it's not definitely clear that he was looking at you in a homosexual way. Chill bro, and don't let your mind run away from you.
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
Now what?
Your fears are confirmed; every gay man that crosses your path is sooooo into you and wishes nothing more than to bend you over a sink, a cash register, the Starbucks counter and ride off into the rainbow-hued sunset with your uptight straight ass in tow.
Now what?
Peace,
Big Stacks from Kakalak
What if I shake a guy's penis? After he's done peeing. To help him not drip pee on his pants.
Is that gay?
Ok lets all share the same piss room
The creepiest thing a guy can do is give you the dead fish handshake.....by no means gay related....just creepy and it makes me not want to know you.
About a year ago I was leaving the office and a brand new male employee who I had not met yet stopped me in the hallway and introduced himself. He already knew my name somehow and after a quick intro he asked ???Do you know where there is a Bath House in the Dallas area???????..having grown up in NY and spending a good amount of time in Greenwich Village I immediately assumed this guy was asking me where to go meet gay men. I politely told him I didn???t and started to walk away. He said ???Well, in San Antonio there???s this place called the Bath House where I used to get my car washed???. Somewhat relieved I said, ???Oh, a car wash, yeah there is one down the street and every Wednesday they have a special for $9.99??????.???NINE NINETY NINE??? the dude bellowed ???I can???t afford NINE NINETY NINE for a car wash???. I asked him how much the Bath House charged and he said ???Well, you can buy a card that???s good for a year for $200 and that gets you as many car washes as you want???. I asked how often he washed his car and he said ???4-5 times a week???. I told him I didn???t know of anyplace like that and walked out to my car. As I was walking I thought, damn, this dude washes his car 200-250 times a year???.I gotta see this Ferrari or whatever he drives that deserves that much care. I looked around and quickly determined that his car had to be the 12 year old Ford Escort that looked like it was ready for the junk heap.
Weak handshakes from anyone is just terrible. I am not proud of it, but it lowers my opinion of someone as far as first impressions go.
We recently did a job search workshop for 14 and 15 yr olds - many of whom will be working for the first time this summer - and we stressed a firm handshake and eye contact. Not just at interviews, but in life.
I laughed outloud at this post. Nice one.
nice one!
Some of my friends think its weird when I tell them that I get a bad impression when someone I meet has a limp/deadfish handshake... thank you for making me feel that it is not unusual even among generally chill people
:weird:
Even worse, though, are the dudes who like, sorta cock their hands funny as you're about to shake, so you end up grabbing around their fingers, and their hand ends up sort of cupping like a dainty woman's would. Its like, am i supposed to kiss the top of this guy's hand now?
But also: dudes who try to squeeze your hand to sawdust when you're just being casually introduced... What are you going for exactly??
I remember one time in Buffalo I walked into a washroom in an old mall and felt uncomfortable because the toilet stalls were made of concrete and were around 3 feet tall. There were 2 guys who didn't know each other having a conversion on the best place to buy weed. The whole time taking a shit. It was an odd thing.
Another time I walked into a bathroom in Texas. Where the urinal was this round marble deal with a bunch of guys standing around taking a piss. Having conversations about the hot chicks in the bar.
Urinal fail...
Reaching in with a flat hand ready for a handshake, other person comes in with the knuckle. End up holding the knuckle..and shake it.. very awkward/funny..but I think its even worse when receiving this hand knuckle shake.
LMHO - yea, this has happened to me, too.
Thread hijack!
I have a buddy who grips your hand extra hard as a sign of dominance. I can go that route somrtimes but i find some cats use the handshake as some quick form of thumb wrestling. Relax on that.
apparently this is not a common practice.
i just hired two dudes from Latvia and yesterday after I paid them they asked which bath house I go to on the weekend. after I came to the realization they weren't putting my heterosexuality on trial, they went on to explain that it is a big thing over there equivalent to that of going to a pub or a spa. i very gently explained to them what most bath houses in north america are used for and watched them digest the information with scornful bewilderment.